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Urgent CSA advice needed.

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  • kelloggs36
    kelloggs36 Posts: 7,712 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    When you were living apart from your girlfriend were you registered at all at another address? bills or council tax or something (anything at all)?
  • ajbrynoffa
    ajbrynoffa Posts: 418 Forumite
    No i sort of "fled" to germany to do an auf wiedesehen pet!
    A shadowy flight into the dangerous world of a man who does not exist.

    A young loner on a crusade to champion the cause of the innocent,
    the helpless, the powerless, in a world of criminals who operate above the law.
  • Sensemaya
    Sensemaya Posts: 1,739 Forumite
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    ajbrynoffa wrote: »
    No i sort of "fled" to germany to do an auf wiedesehen pet!

    Are you in the "Forces"?
  • kelloggs36
    kelloggs36 Posts: 7,712 Forumite
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    Do you have anything at all from your time in Germany? Did you work there at all? Did you have an address that you had post sent to? Why did you escape to Germany?
  • Sensemaya
    Sensemaya Posts: 1,739 Forumite
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    kelloggs36 wrote: »
    Why did you escape to Germany?

    Oh Lord!:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

    There is a certain very good friend of mine...NRP, who call the CSA the gestapo.
  • ajbrynoffa
    ajbrynoffa Posts: 418 Forumite
    no its not all as bad as it sounds,went to germany to work on various building sites...all cash jobs though.
    A shadowy flight into the dangerous world of a man who does not exist.

    A young loner on a crusade to champion the cause of the innocent,
    the helpless, the powerless, in a world of criminals who operate above the law.
  • kurjam
    kurjam Posts: 1,342 Forumite
    cant offer any advice just wanted to wish you and your current family Good Luck ..... and i hope you sort everything out...
  • Sensemaya
    Sensemaya Posts: 1,739 Forumite
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    ajbrynoffa wrote: »
    no its not all as bad as it sounds,went to germany to work on various building sites...all cash jobs though.

    Well you be careful what you say on an open forum then...Pming is a wonderful thing.
  • kelloggs36
    kelloggs36 Posts: 7,712 Forumite
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    you must have lived somewhere though?
  • buckaroo
    buckaroo Posts: 23 Forumite
    Did you ever pay any maintenance? Sounds to me like you cleared off to Germany, earnt yourself a pretty penny and never even considered paying maintenance towards your 2 children.

    You also said in your original post that you were always working and they could have traced you through NI contributions etc, now you're saying you went to Germany and got paid cash in hand.

    None of this rings true to me. I think you knew exactly what your responsibilities were, you just chose to ignore them and now it's caught up with you.
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