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Im happy an love my OH very much!

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  • libra10
    libra10 Posts: 20,048 Forumite
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    Great to see a 'happy' post.

    My husband and I have been married over 40 years now and are happy and contented. He's my best mate, trustworthy and honest, we have lots of laughs together.

    Best wishes for the future.
  • Melonade
    Melonade Posts: 747 Forumite
    I love my OH very much too. But sadly, after 16/17 years it's not the same. Maybe we are drifting apart but if this is how it's going to be from now on it might very well be over :o

    Thats the first time it's been outside my head, it feels strange to even write it.

    Anyway before I depress everyone who's happy I'm sorry.

    I'm glad for all the happy people. It's sooo nice when you just love someone and are happy. That lovely giddy feeling when you see them. I love that xx
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  • OOhh Melonade, turn that damn telly off and start dating again. Go for a free walk... l love my OH immensley 27yrs wed and would marry him again... yes we talk a lot no massive rows n dont sleep on an argument.:)
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  • Melonade
    Melonade Posts: 747 Forumite
    OOhh Melonade, turn that damn telly off and start dating again. Go for a free walk... l love my OH immensley 27yrs wed and would marry him again... yes we talk a lot no massive rows n dont sleep on an argument.:)

    We probably do more together now than ever before. We don't row, maybe one biggish arguement every 3-4 years. Yes we have disagreements but nothing big. We don't really talk about important things though. We've been engaged for as long as we've been together and he's happy to leave me to plan a wedding. I'd be happier for him to actually be interested in getting married. Thing is after this long I'm not sure it's what I want any more.

    Oh well if nothing else I've got a great friend in him and a pain in the backside of a son (who I love to bits lol)
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  • I adore my oh and regularly think how lucky I am to be with him. He's beautiful,intelligent, treats me with a lot of respect, funny - has me in stitches everyday - he's incredibly well balanced and this has helped me in my life immeasurably. He changed my life when he came into it after an eternity of hard times and unhappiness. I'm very lucky he fell in love with me
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  • kazwookie
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    Mine does all the hoovering, without being asked once a week.

    I would be without him!
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  • I have been married for nearly 10 years, and I have never been happier. My hubby is thoughtful, caring, funny, generous, and I love him with all my heart, and I am very lucky I found him.

    If there was an olyimpic sport for being a brilliant husband - mine would win gold!!!
  • Nottoobadyet
    Nottoobadyet Posts: 1,754 Forumite
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    What a lovely thread :)

    I'm very happy too these days, though after spending an evening out with a couple that were snogging all night I've made a note to myself to be as subtle about my relationship bliss as possible :P
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  • :rotfl:

    There's also that issue too! Yes it's nice to see the loved up ones, but some couples are a bit too 'in your face' for public :p
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  • sunshinetours
    sunshinetours Posts: 2,854 Forumite
    JackHill wrote: »
    Hello,

    Apologies If I've caused offense with my comment. I did put sadly depressing as to mean I was genuinely sad that depressing things were happening for people.

    I do urge people to not feel uncomfortable, ashamed or embarrassed about posting their problems on this forum and can assure you most of the people on here will be warm and helpful.

    I just wanted to say love is out there and I genuinely appreciate it as its not something everyone has at the moment. Although I genuinely hope you will all have it in the future!

    Don't apologise in the slightest - nice thread and i feel the same - doesn't mean I don't have sympathy for those not fortunate to feel the same for whatever reason
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