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  • Saturnalia
    Saturnalia Posts: 2,051 Forumite
    I was at a wedding a couple of weeks ago and was bare-headed. I was wearing a sari so anything else with it would have been OTT I reckon.
    Public appearances now involve clothing. Sorry, it's part of my bail conditions.
  • minerva_windsong
    minerva_windsong Posts: 3,808 Forumite
    What everyone else has said - wear what you feel comfortable in. If you don't want to wear a hat or a fascinator then you don't have to, and if you were a guest at my wedding I would rather you wore what you wanted and had a good time than worried about whether what you were wearing was 'right'.

    If you want to check though maybe ring up the bride and see if there's a specific dress code.
    "A mind needs books as a sword needs a whetstone, if it is to keep its edge." - Tyrion Lannister
    Married my best friend 1st November 2014
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  • floss2
    floss2 Posts: 8,030 Forumite
    I demanded that one of my best friends wore a hat for our wedding or else she was barred, as I'd worn one for her wedding the previous year :D

    I always wear a hat - even for a hotel wedding - but then again I do like wearing hats :)
  • Scotsbride
    Scotsbride Posts: 960 Forumite
    went to a wedding in Mexico on friday and they don't do hats if you know a friend of relative of the couple why not ask if its something the couple would like. personally for ours we don't mind as long as people are comfortable
    :kisses3: Married 29th September 2012:love:
  • Hollie84
    Hollie84 Posts: 2,428 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Im not fussed,i know mum and MIL are wearing lovely fascinators but no idea about anyone else
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