Taken my forms to court today...

Tupperware_Queen

..for my divorce. Been living separately for over 2 years since he left, I finally admitted he wasn't coming back just over a year ago, and since then I have been getting on with my new life.

Still, it felt really strange standing at the court office, when I think of the pomp and ceremony of the wedding day.

I feel sad that things have ended up this way, but glad that I can start to move on with my life. Does that make any kind of sense?

amyloofoo

*big hugs* That makes lots of sense, and I'm really pleased that you're in such a positive and motivated state of mind... here's wishing for bigger and better to come

System

I remember standing at the courts with my boyfriend (who became my husband), he was with his girlfriend (who became his wife) and i remember thinking.... how did it come to this?

My boyfriend came to make sure i went through with it. His girlfriend came to give him moral support.

All water under the bridge now.

Nan63

Tupperware_Queen wrote: »

I feel sad that things have ended up this way, but glad that I can start to move on with my life. Does that make any kind of sense?

It makes perfect sense. We all enter marriage thinking it will last forever, we have our hopes and dreams of our life together so it's only natural that when those hopes and dreams don't turn out quite the way we intended, we should feel sad.

Good luck moving forward in your new life, I wish you all the best x

Tupperware_Queen

thanks guys. we have kids, so trying to keep things amicable. Don't think we'll get done as quick as Tom-Kat though!