Your opinions please.

melbell

I saw this on another site. I was just wondering what your opinions are. I'd like to answer the poster and help!

My ex boyfriend has been a jerk. How can I sort it? make sure things are ok?

My ex boyfriend split up with his then ex and moved back home several months ago. He has a daughter. He asked for his old room back at his mum and dads house where his brother lives. His brother is in the bigger room leaving the box room. My ex boyfriend was not happy. Demanding that he has his old room back. Even going on to threaten his brother. My ex would get his brothers bills out and show them to his parents saying he is borrowing money or is in debt. (all his bills were either paid in full or over the minimum payment)

My ex took to opening his brothers post and burning bills so the "red letters" would come so as to convince his parents to throw his brother out. My ex then threw the card "its either he goes or I go and you'll never see your granddaughter again" They had seen their granddaughter before very little.

This is where his brother snapped. One day he just packed his stuff and went. leaving a note saying that my ex had won, He can't compete against such a thing, Don't worry you'll never hear from me again. I've left my sim here so to prove I am gone and never exsisted. Sorry for living."

I admittedly was poisoned against my exs brother. I did get talking to him on facebook and realised he was actually a good person. He did nothing wrong. I am quiet worried about him. I went to see his best friend and she said that she thought he was making it up and told him to be a man and snap out of it. She hasn't heard from him since.

I went to his work, Who did say he was at a differemt site but wouldn't say which one, After looking I found 5 sites.

I want to make sure he is okay. He isn't a bad person. It is like he has disappeared from the face of the planet. My ex left some of his post for as he said "blackmail purposes" so I know who he banks with etc, Could I get them to check if he is okay or should I just go to the police. I'd go to every site across the country see if he is there to see if he okay. My ex was nasty and I don't see why his brother should suffer.

Do you have any ideas?

Please don't move to DT as its like a flames pit down there.

thehappybutterfly

Sounds like a lot of claptrap to me. Or they sound like the family from hell. And the original OP sounds like a stalker. Either way, I'd not bother giving advice.

skintchick

I think it's very wrong of you to repost their question here. Do you have their permission to do this?

aliasojo

melbell wrote: »

I saw this on another site.

And that's where you should have left it.

If the writer of it wanted it to be on MSE they would have posted it here themselves.

Out of order imo.

moneypuddle

Well this is a weird thread

melbell

aliasojo wrote: »

And that's where you should have left it.

If the writer of it wanted it to be on MSE they would have posted it here themselves.

Out of order imo.

Other site encourages it

aliasojo

melbell wrote: »

Other site encourages it

I can't see where on Yahoo it says feel free to repost these comments wherever you like?

Will apologise if you can show me though?

azzabazza

It really should have stayed where it originated.

Sambucus_Nigra

melbell wrote: »

I saw this on another site. I was just wondering what your opinions are. I'd like to answer the poster and help!

If you want to help the poster then help the poster. Surely you have an opinion in your own head to share with them?

peachyprice

Why would you do this? Can you not form your own opinion?

Either answer the OP giving your own opinion or advise her to try posting elsewhere for more advice.