Wedding nightmares

daisiegg

Who else gets these?

I had my first last night and it was a really unpleasant one...it was my wedding night, in a hotel, already changed out of outfits, and I couldn't remember a single bit of my wedding day. I was racking my brains and getting really upset but the whole thing was an absolute blank. It was actually quite horrible, I was thinking all that planning and preparation and I'll never do it again but it's just gone completely. Ergh!

So, tell me I'm not alone! What are your wedding nightmares?

double_mummy

poor daisie ***hugs***

I had one a while ago, OH is called rabbit by me (a stupid teenage thing that stuck) and I was at the venue the doors opened and I started to walk down when I looked at him he was stood there in a giant pink bunny suit (a la Chandler from Friends at the Halloween party)

daisiegg

double_mummy wrote: »

poor daisie ***hugs***

I had one a while ago, OH is called rabbit by me (a stupid teenage thing that stuck) and I was at the venue the doors opened and I started to walk down when I looked at him he was stood there in a giant pink bunny suit (a la Chandler from Friends at the Halloween party)

Sorry, I shouldn't laugh but that did make me giggle!

double_mummy

I was actually really scared thanks daisie lol

johannalf88

daisiegg wrote: »

Who else gets these?

I had my first last night and it was a really unpleasant one...it was my wedding night, in a hotel, already changed out of outfits, and I couldn't remember a single bit of my wedding day. I was racking my brains and getting really upset but the whole thing was an absolute blank. It was actually quite horrible, I was thinking all that planning and preparation and I'll never do it again but it's just gone completely. Ergh!

So, tell me I'm not alone! What are your wedding nightmares?

I have had the exact same one! I made my OH & Best man redo it! But they weren't doing it properly, and thought I was joking that I couldn't remember it. It was horrible!

Turtle

Not really a nightmare, but last night I dreamed my dress was delivered (not even ordered it yet lol) and the box was HUGE. Just remember thinking 'how on earth am I going to get that on the plane?!' :rotfl:

ennui

I had a dream that the groom's sister dropped a cigarette on my dress and it went on fire.

Ooh, and the most upsetting one was that it was the day of the wedding and I had nobody to help me get ready or get to the ceremony. I was frantically trying to do my hair and fasten the dress and no taxi companies would answer the phone. I thought I was going to miss it.

But I think both of those dreams represent anxieties that aren't really wedding related!

Hope you ladies all have sweeter dreams soon.

minerva_windsong

I had a wedding anxiety dream the day after I got engaged I dreamt I was walking down the aisle and just had this overwhelming thought of 'they're all looking at me! :eek:' It was sooo different what I hope my actual wedding will be like though which was mildly reassuring...

VfM4meplse

Like it or not, these dreams are all manifestations of anxiety. All the more reason to have a small, discreet ceremony and plan a big party later when there's less pressure.

*skulks away before the bridezillas wake up from their nightmares *

MrsDrink

VfM4meplse wrote: »

Like it or not, these dreams are all manifestations of anxiety. All the more reason to have a small, discreet ceremony and plan a big party later when there's less pressure.

*skulks away before the bridezillas wake up from their nightmares *

We're doing precisely this - and believe me organsing 'the big party later' (4 days after the wedding) is just as stressful!!

PS the last few wedding dreams I've had have left me feeling so excited and happy. Haven't had one in a couple of weeks though - ha - too tired to dream!

daisiegg

VfM4meplse wrote: »

Like it or not, these dreams are all manifestations of anxiety. All the more reason to have a small, discreet ceremony and plan a big party later when there's less pressure.

*skulks away before the bridezillas wake up from their nightmares *

So having one or two anxiety dreams about one of the most important days of your life makes you a bridezilla? Really? It's a huge important day whether you are having 2 witnesses or 300 guests, I don't think anxiety has anything to do with the size of the day or being a bridezilla!