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  • Grimbal
    Grimbal Posts: 2,334 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    "Science is a wonderful thing if one does not have to earn one's living at it" Einstein 1951
  • cattie
    cattie Posts: 8,844 Forumite
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    dboyce15 wrote: »
    We would have paid about £14k in rent during the same period..

    This is a very healthy and sensible attitude. It was exactly how I thought when recently accepting a low offer on my house. At first it seemed as if I'd taken quite a hit when I added the cost of what I paid for the house to the approx £30k I'd spent on refurbishment etc over the 4.5 yrs I've been here.

    But when I worked out what I'd have to have paid in rent for a property of this size over the same period, I realised it didn't actually amount to a loss on the house at all.

    If you genuinely are unhappy in your home and can afford to take on board any loss, then move. Who knows how long we are on this earth for and we need to do things we believe will improve or enhance our lives when we have the opportunity.
    The bigger the bargain, the better I feel.

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  • robatwork
    robatwork Posts: 7,305 Forumite
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    Grimbal wrote: »

    I was just thinking what a coincidence 2 people started very similar threads in short order.

    I wonder why you started another one?
  • pinkshoes
    pinkshoes Posts: 20,609 Forumite
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    How long have you actually lived there?

    So far, you haven't actually stated one reason why you don't like it, other than no having that "oh wow" feeling??

    You even said you both bought in the location you wanted, and "Location location location" is everything...

    I think you should take a chill pill, stop worrying about what everyone else things, and ENJOY it!

    (ps - I'm quite sure most people don't get the "oh wow" feeling until maybe years later!)
    Should've = Should HAVE (not 'of')
    Would've = Would HAVE (not 'of')

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  • Thrugelmir
    Thrugelmir Posts: 89,546 Forumite
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    dboyce15 wrote: »

    Sadly I haven't reached the 'oh joy' period just yet..

    Is that what you expected?

    A home is what you make it. Nothing more.
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