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first time home owner error...

Hi, this is my first ever post!

Me and my partner graduated from university a year ago and have just bought our first home.

I was desperate to move out of our local city so we bought a two bedroom flat in a nice little village near by.

When I went to view the flat I fell in love with it straight away, but when I picked up the keys like week my heart sank and I realised that I really didn't like the place at all. :(

Our original plan was only to live in this place for 3 years before buying something more permanent and more suitable for starting a family in, now I want to move sooner.

Any suggestions?
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  • jetblack61
    jetblack61 Posts: 93 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10 Posts Combo Breaker
    How many times did you view the place before you offered/exchanged?

    Why don't you like it?
  • dboyce15
    dboyce15 Posts: 18 Forumite
    Seventh Anniversary Combo Breaker
    we went to view it twice.

    It just seems to small and impractical, it is nicely decorated though and doesnt need much doing to it.
  • mjdh1957
    mjdh1957 Posts: 657 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 500 Posts Photogenic
    You really have only two options.

    1. Learn to like it and live in it.
    2. Sell it, making a definite loss on your agent's and solicitor's fees, and potentially a loss on the sale price as well.

    Your call...
    Retired in 2015.
    Moved to Ireland September 2017
  • This may not be financially viable, but you could rent it out and buy somewhere else..
    You were only killing time and it'll kill you right back
  • LandyAndy
    LandyAndy Posts: 26,377 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts
    dboyce15 wrote: »
    Hi, this is my first ever post!

    Me and my partner graduated from university a year ago and have just bought our first home.

    I was desperate to move out of our local city so we bought a two bedroom flat in a nice little village near by.

    When I went to view the flat I fell in love with it straight away, but when I picked up the keys like week my heart sank and I realised that I really didn't like the place at all. :(

    Our original plan was only to live in this place for 3 years before buying something more permanent and more suitable for starting a family in, now I want to move sooner.

    Any suggestions?

    Your best option is to follow this original plan. You may be able to shorten the timescale a bit but you need to just get on with it or face a considerable cost.

    Three years will pass more quickly than you imagine.:)
  • maninthestreet
    maninthestreet Posts: 16,127 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    Has the flat shunk since you viewed it??
    "You were only supposed to blow the bl**dy doors off!!"
  • You were probably so excited about the thought of buying a place - you just took the first one to come along! Give it a bit longer, you never know,you might fall back in love with it. Try to put some of your own style on it - so it doesn't feel like your camping out. It's YOURS after all!
  • savingmummy
    savingmummy Posts: 2,915 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    When you say `JUST bought a house` how long have you been there?

    It took me a good year to fall in love with my new home, I felt very uneasy in it when we moved in and it just didnt feel like home at all.
    DebtFree FEB 2010!
    Slight blip in 2013 - Debtfree Aug 2014 :j

    Savings £132/£1000.
  • dboyce15
    dboyce15 Posts: 18 Forumite
    Seventh Anniversary Combo Breaker
    When you say `JUST bought a house` how long have you been there?

    It took me a good year to fall in love with my new home, I felt very uneasy in it when we moved in and it just didnt feel like home at all.

    We've been in about a week now, perhaps it just doesnt feel like home yet.
  • LandyAndy
    LandyAndy Posts: 26,377 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts
    dboyce15 wrote: »
    We've been in about a week now, perhaps it just doesnt feel like home yet.

    Interesting. I felt rather like that about my first house. I grew to like it though. The other three I've bought have felt like home since the moment I walked in on the first viewing. I wouldn't buy now if I didn't get that feeling.
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