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Force sale of family home

I separated from my wife of 18yrs in march. She initially left (taking the children with her) and I agreed to move out and let her move back in. The house is owned outright with no mortgage, and I really need to get a court 'order for sale' of the property because I've basically got nothing. I've been working on a project for almost two years but it's not quite completed and isn't revenue generating at present.

I appreciate that the children living there isn't in my favour but I desperately need to liquidate my equity in the property, and the ex will get 50% (presumably) so she's not going to be homeless.

I've not had much luck trying to get a solicitor to represent me on legal aid so I thought about trying to do this myself.

Can I just fill out a claim form (CPR part 8) and send it in to the
court along with payment or is there much more to it? I see that in cases where somone has defaulted on a debt secured on a property that the debtee needs to get a charging order before and order for sale, but I am clearly the joint tenant of this property.

Thanks for any help.
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  • carolan78
    carolan78 Posts: 993 Forumite
    How old are the children if you separated 18 years ago?
  • neneromanova
    neneromanova Posts: 3,051 Forumite
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    They were married for 18 years and now they've broken up
    What's yours is mine and what's mine is mine..
  • geoffky
    geoffky Posts: 6,835 Forumite
    carolan78 wrote: »
    How old are the children if you separated 18 years ago?

    Read it again....no advice for the op as i have never been there,,good luck.
    It is nice to see the value of your house going up'' Why ?
    Unless you are planning to sell up and not live anywhere, I can;t see the advantage.
    If you are planning to upsize the new house will cost more.
    If you are planning to downsize your new house will cost more than it should
    If you are trying to buy your first house its almost impossible.
  • RAS
    RAS Posts: 36,587 Forumite
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    It is most unlikely that you will get an immediate order for sale and most unlikely that you will get 50% of the equity when it is sold.

    It will depend very much on total assets but expect either a delayed sale until the youngest leaves secondary education or turns 18 (which ever is later) or an earlier sale with her getting 70% or more.
    If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing
  • FBaby
    FBaby Posts: 18,374 Forumite
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    Does your wife work? How old are the children? Is she in a position to be self reliant? Would she be able to buy another property that won't disadvantage the children? Those are likely to be some of the matters the judge will consider.
  • fluffnutter
    fluffnutter Posts: 23,179 Forumite
    I understand your need for cash, but you're forcing (or trying to force) a sale on your children's home. Where are they going to live if you do this? Are you confident that they'll be just as happy and secure somewhere else?
    "Growth for growth's sake is the ideology of the cancer cell" - Edward Abbey.
  • jason1231972
    jason1231972 Posts: 350 Forumite
    No idea as to the legalities of the situation as a whole, but rather than attempting to force sale via this avenue, is your ex in a position to buy you out amicably? You get 50% of the cash, she gets 100% of the home, after paying for it (presumably by raising a mortgage or similar).
  • Pollycat
    Pollycat Posts: 36,228 Forumite
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    I think you really need to get proper legal advice on this.
  • The children are 13 & 16 yrs. My wife works 3 days a week, but is not in a position to buy me out amicably. Would the children be as happy and secure somewhere else? probably not, but does that mean that my wife should get everything and me nothing? That would be a bit one sided.

    It seems that it's not all about the wife and children. The courts will take into account my situation as well. If my wife didn't want a lower standard of accomodation she shouldn't have broken up the relationship in the first place.
  • Mojisola
    Mojisola Posts: 35,574 Forumite
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    oversteer wrote: »
    The children are 13 & 16 yrs. My wife works 3 days a week, but is not in a position to buy me out amicably. Would the children be as happy and secure somewhere else? probably not, but does that mean that my wife should get everything and me nothing? That would be a bit one sided.

    It seems that it's not all about the wife and children. The courts will take into account my situation as well. If my wife didn't want a lower standard of accomodation she shouldn't have broken up the relationship in the first place.

    I think you're being a bit optimistic there. The children's needs will over-ride yours and your wife's. She will benefit from being resident with them but I don't think a house sale would be forced until the youngest child is 18.
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