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exe's name on deeds can he claim 12yrs later

hi

I will be visiting a solicitor but any early advice be appreciatef. My mum and dad divorced 30 yrs ago. He had written into deeds that will recieve 20% of house once mother remarried or children were no longer dependent.

Now 12 years after he should have claimed (when i was 18) he is demanding 20% of the house,he is now retiring and purposely waited using this like a pension . My issue is that he should have claimed 12yrs ago and i believe have a case to only give 20% of what the house was worth 12years ago.

Thoughts appreciated
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  • lika_86
    lika_86 Posts: 1,786 Forumite
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    So, presumably your mother never gave him 20% when you turned 18 and he never forced a sale?
  • That is correct. He had previously said he had no interest in the share, but have no written proof of that
  • geoffky
    geoffky Posts: 6,835 Forumite
    It will cost you more in legal fees...the only winners will be lawyers...
    It is nice to see the value of your house going up'' Why ?
    Unless you are planning to sell up and not live anywhere, I can;t see the advantage.
    If you are planning to upsize the new house will cost more.
    If you are planning to downsize your new house will cost more than it should
    If you are trying to buy your first house its almost impossible.
  • System
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    needhelpp wrote: »
    My issue is that he should have claimed 12yrs ago and i believe have a case to only give 20% of what the house was worth 12years ago.

    Thoughts appreciated
    Conversely, your mother should have forced the issue 12 years ago as well so he could argue that he is entitled to the 20% of what the house was worth 12 years ago PLUS interest up to the current date,
    This is a system account and does not represent a real person. To contact the Forum Team email forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com
  • She would be willing to pay 20% of what house was worth 12 years ago (to get rid). He claims entitled to 20% of what house worth now, which i think unfair. Plus never made any contribution towards bills or house maintenance
  • rpc
    rpc Posts: 2,353 Forumite
    Lawyer needed pronto.

    It depends on the wording of the agreement. Was he to receive 20% of the value at the time of the split? 20% of the value when the agreement triggered? 20% at the time of the sale?

    I suspect he could get a lawyer saying one thing and your mum will get one saying another. They will then get a lot of money to go to court and argue the point. It may be worth trying to negociate a settlement lest more money is spent in legal fees than is under dispute, although 12 years of appreciation has probably built up a significant sum.
  • Am really grateful for all advice so far. Please keep it coming
  • McKneff
    McKneff Posts: 38,857 Forumite
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    Try turning the situation round.

    What would you do if your mum was owed 20% and dad had brought you up.

    Get them to negotiate together.
    Lawyers are expensive.
    make the most of it, we are only here for the weekend.
    and we will never, ever return.
  • BitterAndTwisted
    BitterAndTwisted Posts: 22,492 Forumite
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    I don't see it as unfair at all that he thinks he should get 20% of the value of the property now. It wouldn't be much of an issue if property-prices had been soaring during most of that 12 year period and that's probably the main reason why your mother thinks he shouldn't. I think your mother sounds unfair and rather greedy. If your mother thinks he should get 20% of what the property was worth 12 years ago, how does she fancy paying him rent for his share for the last 12 years?

    If he didn't make any contribution towards bills or house maintenance and it was important to your mother at the time that he should, and he had no benefit himself from co-owning a property which he no longer lived in for a very long time, then that should have been part of the divorce settlement. I can't see why he should have contributed to the bills, myself. He had his own to pay elsewhere presumably.
  • McKneff
    McKneff Posts: 38,857 Forumite
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    Good point about the rent B&T, she should have been paying 20% of the going rate as rent to dad.

    OP in fairness, if mother gave him 20% of the value now I think it would all even out to be quite honest.

    She may see it better if you relay some of the points made on here.

    Personally I wouldn't be lining solicitors pockets at around £200/300 an hour.
    make the most of it, we are only here for the weekend.
    and we will never, ever return.
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