quitting job without any notice

Hi
Following on from my previous threads about having a bad start to a new job where colleagues talking about me via email and me ending up getting very depressed, I am currently on annual leave for a week which I decided to take instead of going to the doctors to be put on sick leave.

I'm due back to work next Monday which I am dreading even though its a couple of days away it's on my mind non stop and I wake up in the night worrying.

I have decided I do not want to return at all and I have thought carefully about this.

I do not want to step foot in my work place any more and planning on phoning in and sending a formal resignation letter to my manager.

Just need to know my rights in this as I won't be working my required notice of 3 weeks stated in my contract.

I am in the 3rd month of my probation with my review being end of this month, which I know my manager is not going to offer me the job, seeing as this is a basically a 3 month trial period will this be easier to quit without notice?

I have a interview on Thursday for another job which I have not put down my current employers as a reference instead my previous, would this affect my chances of getting the job?

Will I still be paid for what I have worked so far this month?

I emptied my desk discreetly before I left for annual leave so have not left any personal items or have any business owned items on me, expect a swipe card to gain access to the building which I would be happy to send to them in the post.

thanks all, means a lot
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  • sorcerer
    sorcerer Posts: 878 Forumite
    i doubt anything would happpen if you just left, since you have only been their three months.
  • duchy
    duchy Posts: 19,511 Forumite
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    Why not ring the manager and simply say you are sorry but you feel the job hasn't worked out and ask them if they actually want you to work your notice. Odds are they'll say no -and it'll protect your reference if you leave on good terms. Also they could be a bit funny about paying you and a conversation and agreeing to leave mutually may stop any deductions/late payment.
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  • ditzyat50
    ditzyat50 Posts: 241 Forumite
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    jamiehec wrote: »
    Hi

    I'm due back to work next Monday which I am dreading even though its a couple of days away it's on my mind non stop and I wake up in the night worrying.

    I am in the 3rd month of my probation with my review being end of this month, which I know my manager is not going to offer me the job, seeing as this is a basically a 3 month trial period will this be easier to quit without notice?

    Step one:
    Life is too short to be making yourself ill over a dreaded job. But at the end of the day it all boils down to money, so don't walk! Okay let your manager think he is Mr Big and Mighty and not give you the job. Shrug and say "fair enough, what a shame it didn't work out". And then leave on the best terms possible.

    Step two:
    Go to the job centre and look for a job and sign on. You have not walked out on a job. You weren't kept on after your probation period. JSA is not a lot but it's something to live on while you job search.

    And Step three;
    Take care, and try to stop loosing sleep, because at the end of the day, no matter how much you worry, it will make no difference to the outcome of things.
  • jamiehec
    jamiehec Posts: 18 Forumite
    thanks for your help however I have still decided to resign and going to break the news by email..

    this is what i'm planning on sending before Monday

    Dear (Managers name)

    Due to personal reasons which are out of my control I have decided it would be best for me to terminate my employment at (company name) with immediate effect.

    Please forgive me for leaving with such short notice however at this moment in time it is for the best.

    I would like to thank you for giving me this experience and please thank the team for being great with me.

    Regards

    Obviously I have kept it short and nice and not mentioned anything about me hating the job! Also lied about thanking the team for being 'great' with me.

    I will also attach a formal resignation letter for HR records.
  • tizerbelle
    tizerbelle Posts: 1,921 Forumite
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    If you are going to breach your contract which is what you are doing at least have the courtesy to be honest with the employer.
  • Acc72
    Acc72 Posts: 1,528 Forumite
    duchy wrote: »
    Why not ring the manager and simply say you are sorry but you feel the job hasn't worked out and ask them if they actually want you to work your notice. Odds are they'll say no -and it'll protect your reference if you leave on good terms.

    I agree with the above.

    If you feel that your boss will "let you go " anyway, they might be relived at this solution as it solves both of your problems.
  • jamiehec
    jamiehec Posts: 18 Forumite
    tizerbelle wrote: »
    If you are going to breach your contract which is what you are doing at least have the courtesy to be honest with the employer.
    If I be honest and say I hated every second of working in that place and start slagging of the people I worked with then I'm leaving on a bad note and scooping down to their level.
  • Sambucus_Nigra
    Sambucus_Nigra Posts: 8,669 Forumite
    jamiehec wrote: »
    If I be honest and say I hated every second of working in that place and start slagging of the people I worked with then I'm leaving on a bad note and scooping down to their level.

    And how will that assist the management in dealing with the people if nobody ever mentions it? If you aren't going to use them as a reference - say you can't set foot in the premises again due to the bullying that is going on there. At least throw them a bone.
    If you haven't got it - please don't flaunt it. TIA.
  • duchy
    duchy Posts: 19,511 Forumite
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    Don't see why you have to slag them off-just be honest. The sarky comment about the team been great is just silly.

    As the incident of abusive email was never satisfactorily resolved I cannot see me having a future with your company so am resigning with immediate effect.
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  • marleyboy
    marleyboy Posts: 16,698 Forumite
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    edited 16 May 2012 at 5:06PM
    OP you may find this link useful..

    http://www.direct.gov.uk/en/employment/redundancyandleavingyourjob/dg_10026688

    However be aware of the following...
    How to resign from your job

    You should make it clear to your employer that you are formally resigning. You can give your resignation verbally, unless your contract of employment says otherwise. However, it's always a good idea to put it in writing, saying:
    • how much notice you are giving
    • what your last day will be
    If you want to explain your reasons for resigning, putting it in writing will make it easier to organise your thoughts.
    Give your employer the right amount of notice. By law, you must give one week's notice if you have worked for your employer for a month or more. Your contract may demand longer.
    Your benefits if you resign

    If you have voluntarily quit without good reason, your Jobcentre Plus can delay your Jobseeker's Allowance. If you are claiming constructive dismissal, make sure they know. If you can't claim Jobseeker's Allowance, you may still be able to claim a hardship payment, which is a reduced amount of Jobseeker's Allowance.
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