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Hi

At the present I work full time, my DH is disabled and is in receipt of Incapacity benefit, medium rate care and high rate Mobility.

Over the last couple of months I have become increasingly aware that he is struggling more to cope. He is walking with crutches instead of his usual stick because he has become more unsteady on his feet and I am worried that he will fall, which has happened on several occasions, and bang his head. His hand also shakes and occasionally he does drop thngs again I am worried he will have an accident with the kettle.

My question is if I give up work to care for him will I be able to claim benefits straight away and would I claim carers allowance or would he claim for me on his benefit.

Thank you

Jayne

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  • wolfehouse
    wolfehouse Posts: 1,394 Forumite
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    when did he last see a physiotherapist and an occupational therapist
    sounds like simple equipment like kettle tipper and tea trolley might help him stay independent.
    also you can contact your local carers centre who can help make sure you understand the benefits thing (for yourself)- carers benefit is complicated by the fact that the money you get might just come straight off of his IB depending on your circumstances, but it is a gateway benefit and so you really need someone who can look at your situation to see if you would be better off claiming carers allowance.

    you are also entitled by law to a carers assessment of your own needs (not his).
  • Mojisola
    Mojisola Posts: 35,574 Forumite
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    If he's on his own but at risk of falls, ask the OTs about getting an alarm that he wears so you'll know he can always call for help.

    The carer's assessment you should have should also include an emergency plan in case you are taken ill/have to spend time in hospital/etc, so that he is not left without help.
  • craftygran
    craftygran Posts: 109 Forumite
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    Thanks for the replies. He last had an assessment 6 years ago when he came out of hospital. I was not aware I could just ask for another assessment.
  • wolfehouse
    wolfehouse Posts: 1,394 Forumite
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    sure you can- ring up your local social worki deopartment and ask for the ot assessment for your dh- they will prioritise it and put on a waiting list.

    ring the local carers centre for yourself and your carers assessment
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