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I don't want the house we are buying
Soapn
Posts: 1,521 Forumite
offer in and accepted
our house offered on and accepted, buyer is getting re-mortgage of their property to pay cash for ours
We've been accepted for mortgage, valuation survey done
BUT
I don't want the house we are buying
What can I do?
our house offered on and accepted, buyer is getting re-mortgage of their property to pay cash for ours
We've been accepted for mortgage, valuation survey done
BUT
I don't want the house we are buying
What can I do?
When your life is a mess, stop and think what you are doing before bringing more kids into it, it's not fair on them.
GLAD NOT TO BE A MEMBER OF THE "ENTITLED TO " UNDER CLASS
GLAD NOT TO BE A MEMBER OF THE "ENTITLED TO " UNDER CLASS
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what attracted you to it in the first place?
Withdraw from the sale, sell your and go into rented until the right house comes along!0 -
Don't buy it. Then find a house that you actually like and don't make offers on ones that you don't.0
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withdraw from the purchase"enough is a feast"...old Buddist proverb0
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It was a compromise thing, OH didn't want to move in the first place, I talked him round. First house we offered and got survey on had damp and structural problems so walked away, this one was his 1st choice property so went along with it because he compromised with me re moving.When your life is a mess, stop and think what you are doing before bringing more kids into it, it's not fair on them.
GLAD NOT TO BE A MEMBER OF THE "ENTITLED TO " UNDER CLASS0 -
It was a compromise thing, OH didn't want to move in the first place, I talked him round. First house we offered and got survey on had damp and structural problems so walked away, this one was his 1st choice property so went along with it because he compromised with me re moving.
I think you may have bigger problems then wanting not to buy a propertyVuja De - the feeling you'll be here later0 -
I think you need to talk with your OH before you do anything.0
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I think you need to talk with your OH before you do anything.
we have, at length last night:p At the end of the day, he's the nicer person and will do whatever I decide to do, whereas I haven't got it in me to do what he wants and be gracious about itWhen your life is a mess, stop and think what you are doing before bringing more kids into it, it's not fair on them.
GLAD NOT TO BE A MEMBER OF THE "ENTITLED TO " UNDER CLASS0 -
You're a lucky womanwe have, at length last night:p At the end of the day, he's the nicer person and will do whatever I decide to do, whereas I haven't got it in me to do what he wants and be gracious about itValue-for-money-for-me-puhleeze!
"No man is worth, crawling on the earth"- adapted from Bob Crewe and Bob Gaudio
Hope is not a strategy
...A child is for life, not just 18 years....Don't get me started on the NHS, because you won't win...I love chaz-ing!0 -
VfM4meplse wrote: »You're a lucky woman
I know..........When your life is a mess, stop and think what you are doing before bringing more kids into it, it's not fair on them.
GLAD NOT TO BE A MEMBER OF THE "ENTITLED TO " UNDER CLASS0 -
we have, at length last night:p At the end of the day, he's the nicer person and will do whatever I decide to do, whereas I haven't got it in me to do what he wants and be gracious about it
If you know this isn't the right house then maybe you shouldn't be moving.
Why do you want to move so badly?0
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