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  • Should have known.....tried to accuse my friends husband of doing it while visiting.....and after catching him signing up to a dating website saying he was single 5 years ago.....

    Now the question is forget it.....or kick him out....

    Thank you to everyone for yout honesty....
  • You can then pay more money to ask her to do something in particular, like hitting herself over the head with a cucumber while shouting your name. Or something.

    You seem to know what the girls like to get extra money :rotfl:
  • sharpy2010
    sharpy2010 Posts: 2,471 Forumite
    Should have known.....tried to accuse my friends husband of doing it while visiting.....and after catching him signing up to a dating website saying he was single 5 years ago.....

    Now the question is forget it.....or kick him out....

    Thank you to everyone for yout honesty....

    I know I was the first to suggest it, and say "uh-oh" but the thing is this: Pretty much every bloke does it! Ok, some don't pay for it (theres enough free stuff on the Internet to not need to), and most don't get caught.

    I'd certainly say though that what he's done, whilst not condoning it, is completely normal blokeish behaviour, and certainly not something to get rid of him for.

    After all, he's only looked at a few piccies on the net, he hasn't gone out and found another woman.

    I'd say personally he was just looking for a bit a of entertainment for twenty minutes, and was unlucky enough that you saw what he was doing.

    Ask him to stop, but don't get rid of him, if you are happy with him in all other respects :-)

    Take care.
  • seriousDFW
    seriousDFW Posts: 405 Forumite
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    Depends on your view on !!!!!! and your relationship. If it's ok in all other respects, this shouldn't be a dealbreaker, unless you have strong opinions against !!!!!!.

    Personally, I would be annoyed that he'd spent money on it.

    I would discuss with him and come to a compromise - you'll forgive him if he stops paying for !!!!!! and if he only looks at it passively, i.e. doesn't use webcams which are more interactive.

    That's my personal opinion but you may feel differently.
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  • Rupert_Bear
    Rupert_Bear Posts: 1,303 Forumite
    Hes in good company. Just ask Jackie Smith the ex Home Secretary. In her case the tax payer was expected to pay for her husbands moment of delight.
  • there is absolutely nothing wrong with watching a bit of !!!!!! or watching some webcams, but tell him to make sure he's using free sites in future, there are plenty of them that don't require spends.

    I'd not throw someone out for watching !!!!!!, taking part in it yes lol but not watching.
  • chattychappy
    chattychappy Posts: 7,302 Forumite
    You can then pay more money to ask her to do something in particular, like hitting herself over the head with a cucumber while shouting your name. Or something.

    I blame the cucumbers...
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