I hate my Job!!!

theoretica

As this is having an effect on your life outside work I think it might also make sense to tackle this from the other end. Is there a new (and not too expensive) out of work activity you could take up to keep you awake, motivated and interested at least part of the day. Flamenco dancing or football or... I particularly recommend something which involves a commitment to be somewhere so you are less likely to drop out and let your job pull your whole life towards lethargy.

Sambucus_Nigra

OP - honestly, I'm not 'having a go' but the words 'petulant child' came to mind when reading your thread.

Yes, some jobs are boring
Yes, even graduates have to work boring jobs to get where they want to be [these days, graduates are two a penny]
Yes, it cost money to put yourself through uni [join the club]
Deal with it like an adult, work hard through the boredom to make sure you get a decent reference, go and find something else but please don't rub your situation in the faces of all those on here desperate to work.

hcb42

Although unemployment is difficult, it doesnt mean the OP cannot feel demoralised about their role, to the point where it sounds like it is affecting them psychologically - and these boards are about Employment, Jobseeking and Training, not just Jobseeking.

OP, you need to think about your goals, what do you want to do, and list down 5-10 things you can do to move towards that goal. Eventually you will get there if you focus on it. Meanwhile you will have to find a way to snap out of current mood, and be the best conveyancing solicitor for your current clients - as there is no better feeling than a job well done. Above all you need to tell yourself that using employers time to surf and getting in late may mean you might find the decision is made for you and you are out of the door. So cease those bad practices immediately before you are exposed here.

Triker

Unless you've 'been there' its difficult to understand.

You are not whinging, you have the right to be dissatisfied with your role. Some people who love detail and data inputting would probably love it, to me it sounds dry as a bone and boring to boot.

I made a huge mistake and moved from one profession to another and last 7 months, 6 months too long really. I too had the feelings of being trapped, desperate and lonely...I ended up breaking down at the Doctors, he told me to leave as soon as I could as no 'job' should have this effect on a person. It was subtle but affecting, the atmosphere, the work which was not what I was employed to do, my moral code being compromised re the work, the favouritism (not me obviously), the bullying and disinterest by management....it was a very unhealthy atmosphere all round.

What helped for me was I formulated a plan, I gave myself a timescale to get another job abit boom or bust really. I also saved what I could so I had a buffer.

It's only a job, its not worth your health, happiness or peace of mind. There will be other work out there for you, just keep looking.

Good luck.

Sambucus_Nigra

Triker wrote: »

Unless you've 'been there' its difficult to understand....It's only a job, its not worth your health, happiness or peace of mind. There will be other work out there for you, just keep looking.

Some of us have been there....and if it's only a job then why moan about it in a place where people are trying desperately to find work...any work.

Wellery82

Pinkpenguin wrote: »

Wantitall - Due to my financial circumstances I am stuck doing this until I find something that pays the same. I am paying £363 a month for the loan that was supposed to guarantee a glistening Legal career so I hope you can understand my frustration!

Surely £363 a month is not your student loan repayment or have i misunderstood?

t0rt0ise

I think people who are saying that he should be thankful he's got a job are being somewhat lacking in imagination and understanding of psychology. It's like someone moaning when they've got flu while someone else has cancer. Is the flu sufferer not allowed to want to be well and happy and better their lot? Come on guys, be a bit sensible here.

What the OP has to do is to draw up a plan.. once you have a goal in mind it makes things easier to bear. Work well now in order to ensure a good reference and go all out to get another job. There are jobs out there especially for those who are in employment already and want to move on.

Janey7

Hi, I have similar issues with my job so sympathise ...

I would encourage you to keep applying for other roles though, it feels so much better to know that you have a few applications out there and might get invited to an interview any day!

I hope it works out for you, just try to keep remembering that the fastest way to your dream job is to prove to employers that you can perform well in your current place - even if it's not the greatest job

jubileee

t0rt0ise wrote: »

I think people who are saying that he should be thankful he's got a job are being somewhat lacking in imagination and understanding of psychology. It's like someone moaning when they've got flu while someone else has cancer. Is the flu sufferer not allowed to want to be well and happy and better their lot? Come on guys, be a bit sensible here.

Totally agree with this. If someone posted asking for views on whether to buy an 42" or a 50" TV, would people start posting that they should be lucky to be able to afford any TV when other people are in turmoil on the bankruptcy or Debt free wannabee board??

The OP is clearly unhappy in their job and, if I was in the same position (which I have been) I would find responses stating I should be grateful to have any job unhelpful

Incidentally, I have been in a similar position to the OP and I have also been out of work. I am fortunate enough to now be in a job I do enjoy but, if I had to choose to relive either period in my life, I would honestly opt for the out of work option

Pinkpenguin

Hey guys,

I am overwhelmed by the responses I have received to this post. I am grateful for the kind words and advice given by some but shocked by the ignorance of others. I just want to make it clear that I understand that some people are unemployed and unhappy however I am employed but unhappy - why does that mean I cant ask for advice on these boards??

As for the 'Petulant Child' remark - you have absolutely no idea, I can assure you that I don't spend my time posting threads on here so I can 'rub it in the faces of those who don't work' so perhaps you can keep your ludicrous opinions to yourself.

I also don't think that just because I have expressed that I am bored with my job suddenly reveals why so many "sellers are messed around by their conveyancing solicitors". I work with many Conveyancers who enjoy their job and are passionate about what they are doing. I'm just saying the job isn't for me and I FIND IT boring.

I shall certainly take the constructive advice that I have received on-board though. I have given myself up until the end of March to find something new - until then I am going to try my hardest to knuckle down and get things back on track.

If anyone has been offended by this post, then that absolutely was not my intention. I have hit rock bottom and my family are fed up of hearing about how much I hate my job so I guess I didn't know where else to turn. So, thank you to those that have helped me see a light at the end of the tunnel, I hope that all of those that have castigated me never end up employed in a job that you hate - you'll be in for a shock!

PP xx