Tesco 11+ support group for incurable gasbags and addicted bargain hunters!

mymerrywidow

can someone pm a mod to get the old thread locked as people are still posting over there?

caz2703

HappyChappy84 wrote: »

Do you think that he wants to kick you out and make you homeless in the hope it would get him custody of the kids?

I have a residence order but I don't think any judge would take too kindly to someone trying to make his children homeless. No, his 1st ex-wife was a lot better at doing as she was told and not answering back. When I stopped being a doormat he showed his true colours and that's why the police ended up getting involved.

He can try and make me homeless HC but at the end of the day, his sons will find out when they're older just what he did. Their own grandmother even suggested I leave the house and go to a womens shelter/hostel. What kind of person would see their own grandchildren in a hostel? Cut from the same cloth is the general consensus.

MKS wrote: »

Well done you!:beer:

Totally agree with your comment about your boys:T:T

As a strong lady, may I suggest that you change the above to -I am not a victim. Seems apt. Have a good day.

I AM NOT A VICTIM :j

Most on here have no idea what I've gone through and will never know as it's not something I'm proud of. I was always a happy outgoing person, the kind that when in a room full of strangers would be mingling and talking. After a few years with the ex however, I became the person who sat in the corner avoiding eye contact. Well I'm back to my old self and I will never be the victim of abuse ever again.

mymerrywidow

locarr wrote: »

Thanks for the new thread FK!!:D

I'm also on the 1st page as I have my settings to 150 posts per page!!;):p

where have you been hiding?

madmuppet5

Tinyshoes

Is that your car mad? :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

HappyChappy84

HappyChappy84 wrote: »

All the pics are here http://offensive-liam.tumblr.com/ I've got as far as Egypt. Just keep scrolling the page and the previous pics will appear. We did go to Iguazu/Iguassu (depends which country you're in):beer:

Actually, I think there is pics from 3 different countries on the old thread but I can't remember which ones. I'll be able to tell you once I get home.

It was decided it would be better to put the pics on an external site for those who use mobile Internet and dongles to read the thread so my pics didn't hurt their data limits.

locarr

mymerrywidow wrote: »

where have you been hiding?

see below!!;)

locarr wrote: »

Morning All,

I'm just back from a long romantic w/e away with the Missus!;)

didn't say anything on here as it was a surprise and she sometimes has a nosy!:rotfl:

so have I missed anything! only about 100 pages to catch up on! would anyone like to give me a quick resume?

off to do some shopping at T tonight, so an update would be much appreciated!!:D

motherbear

Has anyone had their pricecheck results from yesterday back today yet?

HappyChappy84

caz2703 wrote: »

I have a residence order but I don't think any judge would take too kindly to someone trying to make his children homeless. No, his 1st ex-wife was a lot better at doing as she was told and not answering back. When I stopped being a doormat he showed his true colours and that's why the police ended up getting involved.

He can try and make me homeless HC but at the end of the day, his sons will find out when they're older just what he did. Their own grandmother even suggested I leave the house and go to a womens shelter/hostel. What kind of person would see their own grandchildren in a hostel? Cut from the same cloth is the general consensus.



I AM NOT A VICTIM :j

Most on here have no idea what I've gone through and will never know as it's not something I'm proud of. I was always a happy outgoing person, the kind that when in a room full of strangers would be mingling and talking. After a few years with the ex however, I became the person who sat in the corner avoiding eye contact. Well I'm back to my old self and I will never be the victim of abuse ever again.

You know that advert where the father emails his daughter every day from the day she was born for her to read when she gets older?

I would do something like that. Set up an email address for the boys an email them every time something happens. Include screenshots of text message he sends, attach any emails he sends you. Detail everything, including you're responses etc etc. then when the kids are old enough to understand sit them down and give them a brief explanation of what's happened and then give them the log on information for their email account and let them decide if they want to read it or not. Kids being kids curiosity will get the better of them and they will read it. An it least that way you can't be accused of making things up etc etc.

Mrs_Jagger

madmuppet5 wrote: »

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
I have always wanted to do this!! Love it - thankyou - it's really made me chuckle.:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: