what title for a male bridesmaid?

my fiancee is having a male chief bridesmaid. she would like to keep calling him as such but mother in law and i both think something like bridesman is probably more suitable?
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  • nonnatus
    nonnatus Posts: 1,458 Forumite
    "Bridesboy"? :rotfl:

    On a more serious note, men take the title of Nurse and Midwife, so I'd probably stick with the original. "Midwife" is actually a German word, The "Mid" bit translates as "with" and the "wife" bit is the German for "woman". So Midwife means "Withwoman" so it's describing the occupation, not the person.

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  • I'd second bridesman, and to add to that, rename the best man as groomsman.
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  • jtr2803
    jtr2803 Posts: 3,232 Forumite
    My male best friend wouldn't want to be part of the actual wedding party as he hates attention but I am giving him the title 'man of honour' because I already know what a massive help he will be!

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  • joho
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    A bridesmate or bridesman. Manmaid sounds a bit er... manufactured? No pun intended.
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  • I've heard of both Bridesman and Man of Honour being used as titles for male attendants for the bride.
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  • ellay864
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    I'd go with bridesman. The midwife analogy relates to who the job is with i.e. with the woman, so the job is to be with the woman giving birth. In that case the word describes the job
    But bridesmaid comes from bride's maid, so the word describes the person...the person is the maid, and as maid is a term for a female it wouldn't be right to call him that. He will be the bride's man
  • PasturesNew
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    I thought lads behind a bride were pageboys.... so could be Head Pageboy, or just Pageboy.
  • ianbar0
    ianbar0 Posts: 379 Forumite
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    the reason he is head bridesmaid is my o/h was head bridesmaid for his wedding, so its been an ongoing thing since that he would be same for her. she seems to think bridesmaid still but i will push for brides man!
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  • Roz_V
    Roz_V Posts: 1,152 Forumite
    ianbar0 wrote: »
    the reason he is head bridesmaid is my o/h was head bridesmaid for his wedding, so its been an ongoing thing since that he would be same for her. she seems to think bridesmaid still but i will push for brides man!

    What about Male of Honour?
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