Stupid husband and payday loan rant

Edwardia

Thanks fot telling me I'm making it up

malkyh

Punch him?

Apples2

Edwardia wrote: »

drinking merlot watching !!!!!! in his study and lying about drinking when he can hardly stand up.

We're all like the love :rotfl::rotfl:
Withdraw his priviledges.

And well done for being there for him :beer:

Edwardia

malkyh wrote: »

Punch him?

I don't want to bust my hand thank you.

malkyh

Sounds like the drinking is his way of hiding from his issues. Have you suggested he speaks to someone for help with this?

want-it-all

Confiscate any and all debit/credit cards, chequebooks, etc., and allot him a weekly/monthly allowance. Sounds drastic, but what a mess.

Barneysmom

Is he gambling, or is he drinking that much?

laurel7172

I admire your spirit, but I don't think you can do much, really.

As I suspect you've already worked out, you can't stop somebody else drinking or spending-they have to want to for themselves. You can draw up budgets until you're blue in the face-they see every penny saved as ten spare to spend upon themselves.

I take it you have your own bank account? Go on holiday with a friend this year.

Edwardia

No point in continuing this thread

FATBALLZ

What do you see in him? It sounds like he's beyond help, until a bailiff takes away his booze and computer so he can't jerk off to !!!!!! he isn't going to learn.

tell_it_how_it_is

Erm, if this isn't made up, why the heck are you still in the relationship?