Ethical dilemma - moving out in a month, should I pay for a repair

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lissliss wrote: »

Thanks, I was just a little shocked because it didn't even enter my head that I was being unreasonable!!

I can understand that but then that's the benefit of forums, I think.

Sometimes I benefit from having my perceptions challenged - broadens the mind! Or, if I really do believe I'm right, it re-enforces my beliefs

Either way, do try not to take comments from people you do not know on a faceless forum too much to heart - sometimes a post can read quite differently to how the poster was actually saying it; no body language, no nuances, no subtle tone to pick clues up from.

On a positive note, the posts have given you another viewpoint and it would seem that it has proved beneficially in leaving on good terms with your friends rather than a potential fallout over something which, in the long run, is relatively minor in the big scheme of things. Friends are priceless; they cannot be replaced

Whirlee

lissliss wrote: »

It hadnt even entered my head to take any of that stuff, even though I technically own a quarter of it. It would seem a bit mean, and that's why I didn't see a problem not paying or only part paying towards the repair.

See, I'm not as mean as I sound;)

Exactly you do own a quarter of that stuff - if you have a chat with your friends they might agree that its entirely reasonable that in exchange for not taking anything you also don't have to pay towards the repairs.

lissliss

3v3 wrote: »

I can understand that but then that's the benefit of forums, I think.

Sometimes I benefit from having my perceptions challenged - broadens the mind! Or, if I really do believe I'm right, it re-enforces my beliefs

Either way, do try not to take comments from people you do not know on a faceless forum too much to heart - sometimes a post can read quite differently to how the poster was actually saying it; no body language, no nuances, no subtle tone to pick clues up from.

On a positive note, the posts have given you another viewpoint and it would seem that it has proved beneficially in leaving on good terms with your friends rather than a potential fallout over something which, in the long run, is relatively minor in the big scheme of things. Friends are priceless; they cannot be replaced

You're right, of course, but I think there's only one way to read a statement like "you're lucky to have friends"

3v3

lissliss wrote: »

You're right, of course, but I think there's only one way to read a statement like "you're lucky to have friends"

I know, I am *very* lucky to have the friends I have :rotfl:

Again, don't take it to heart - maybe that poster has had a very negative and bitter experience in the past? Who knows? It's not important in the grand scheme of things. What is important is that you retain your friends, leave amicably and move forward positively with your life.

Good luck with the move :beer:

amiehall

Tbh I wouldn't want to pay for a new washing machine at this point in time! Having had benefit from the old machine is irrelevant imo, you've all had the same benefit from that machine. Unless you've specifically destroyed the other one by doing something, I'd leave them to it. Possibly trade-off not taking any furniture for not paying for repair I suppose, unless you want something in particular?

Scotchnan

Is there a washing machine repair person near you?

Idiophreak

lissliss wrote: »

It was definitely brand new when we moved in (it still had some of the wrapping on) but I'm guessing it's not of the best quality.

In that case, maybe it's worth making a call to the retailer and quoting the Sale of Goods act at them. I'd find it unacceptable for a washing machine to fail so quickly.

Sooki

If the machines not broken through misuse, it has broken down under a reasonable period in which case you might be able to get it repaired for free.

evoke

Check your guarantee/warranty. Was it only one year? Some come with multiple-year guarantees. Also check if an extended warranty was purchased. Also check any household insurances to see if repairs are covered. It's worth looking into as you may not have to pay anything. Even in the worst-case scenario, a brand new washing machine will only work out at well under £100 if split between all four of you, so it's not reall the end of the world! Have you had an estimate for the repair?

societys_child

Hang on a minute. The op has contributed towards the machine (presumably the cost was included in the rent) along with the other residents who have had use of it. Why should the op be expected to pay for a new (or repaired) machine they won't use?

It's like saying they should also contribute toward the cost of the next years utility bills as she's used the power whilst living there!