24K debt, 25 years old, work in a bank = problem!!

slowlyfading

gpage2000 wrote:

I thought that people were meant to post on here to be helpful and constructive - not argumentative?! :mad:

Is there a way to end this thread?

People do post constructive things on here, you just chose not to read them. You come across as slightly arrogant to me.
And yes, ask for it to be closed by a moderator.

ZTD

gpage2000 wrote:

By the way "knocking on the head" is only a figure of speach - it does not literally mean "make things vanish" or "reduce debt"

To knock in the head, or To knock on the head, to stun or
kill by a blow upon the head; hence, to put am end to; to
defeat, as a scheme or project; to frustrate; to quash.

It is a figure of speech, and it means to kill or to end. That is the meaning I've been taking it for.

gpage2000

slowlyfading wrote:

People do post constructive things on here, you just chose not to read them. You come across as slightly arrogant to me.

I'm sorry you feel this way, it just seems that i'm not getting advice from 1 or 2 particular people, just simply people 'having a go'

and i know people are on the whole very useful and constructive, it's simply those few people that ruin it.

arrogant is not the word, it's me sticking up for myself under fire from others!

gpage2000

ZTD wrote:

It is a figure of speech, and it means to kill or to end. That is the meaning I've been taking it for.

I am sorry then, this is not what i meant. I only got a B in GSCE English!

I completely agree what what you're saying, and am 100% aware that i have in fact borrowed more which is usually not the best idea.