Should I complain?

tomjonesrules

Emmzi wrote: »

the problem is that people imagining the motive and therefore excusing the behaviour perpetuates it.

whatever the reason, it is inappropriate.

It might help if you quoted my full post there Emmzi!

Emmzi

tomjonesrules wrote: »

It might help if you quoted my full post there Emmzi!

Well, the relevant bit for my point is where you are justifying and therefore normalising the behaviour.

You do then go on to say the behaviour is unacceptable, but it was the normalising I wanted to comment on. That's the part I believe society needs to stop if we are ever to progress. In many ways, the reason for the behaviour is irrelevant; it's the receiver's interpretation that matters.