Help! Present for best friends 40th!!

Hi all - my best friend is 40 on Christmas Day and i would like to get her something different which would also be good to keep! Any1 got any suggestions as i'm running out of time! Any help greatly appreciated!!!!!
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  • VfM4meplse
    VfM4meplse Posts: 34,269 Forumite
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    Time is tight...if you're nearby and have close friends to hand, why not invite everyone over for a party in her honour at your place on Christams night? Memories are better than possessions.

    Either that or a gift experience, such as a trip in a hot air balloon, day at a spa etc (something for which you can print out a voucher).
    Value-for-money-for-me-puhleeze!

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  • Emmzi
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    I asked for a charm bracelet for my 40th and each freind gave me a charm that'd remind me of them :)
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  • I don't know if your friend is having a party or anything for her 40th but one of my friends bought me a beautiful photo album for my 40th and I put all my photos from my birthday party in it - its a proper old fashioned album in box and is one of my favourite things I got for my 40th.

    Other than that I also was given a beautiful pendant necklace by one friend and a gorgeous mirror for my living room from another.

    I think a present she can keep is the best idea for a 40th. If money is tight how about framing a photo of the two of you together in a nice frame?

    We bought a hot air balloon trip for one of my friends which was something she had always wanted to do.

    Hope you find something soon!
  • What's your budget?
    I second the idea above of a photo of the two of you (preferably an old one!) in a lovely frame. Or a special piece of jewellery.

    Now I know you said you wanted something for her to keep, but depending on your budget, what about a voucher for a spa day for the two of you (check out buyagift.co.uk - there are loads of bargains on there and a 20% off code floating around somewhere). For my best friend's 40th, we went to Ragdale Hall, and I bought her a photo as above. There are lots of experience days at the moment - cookery, cupcake decorating, driving, spa ... you name it!

    You are a bit late now, but if you look at notonthehighstreet.com there are some beautiful gifts many of which you can have personalised. I particularly like this: http://www.notonthehighstreet.com/morethanwords/product/personalised-dad-loves-typographic-art but it's on a 3-4 week delivery.
  • yzf1040
    yzf1040 Posts: 33 Forumite
    Thank you all for your suggestions. I appreciate your replies! I would say roughly about £50 on her birthday and as it is the same day as Christmas day - we usually spend about £20 on each other for that! I do like the idea of a piece of jewellry eg charm on so she can add to it!
    I've got a pic of us when we were 4 in the egg and spoon race (really cute), but what do i do with that - just get it framed or put it on somethin? :j
  • Tiggger
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    How about a Pandora bracelet? the modern equivalent of a charm bracelet, you can then add charms for future birthdays! Other friends might like to buy charms if they too are struggling for present ideas.
  • Shelldean
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    my bf was 40 earlier in the yr, funds are tight so mine was a budget gift but she loved it adn thats all that mattered!!

    I got a teddy holding heart, and in his arms was a bottle of her fav tipple, and the other held a mini can of coke for the mixer. Slipped into the box next to him was a a gift voucher for her fav jewellers. So she could choose what she wanted.
  • You could get the photo copied onto a cake in one of the supermarkets.
  • meritaten
    meritaten Posts: 24,158 Forumite
    yzf1040 wrote: »
    Thank you all for your suggestions. I appreciate your replies! I would say roughly about £50 on her birthday and as it is the same day as Christmas day - we usually spend about £20 on each other for that! I do like the idea of a piece of jewellry eg charm on so she can add to it!
    I've got a pic of us when we were 4 in the egg and spoon race (really cute), but what do i do with that - just get it framed or put it on somethin? :j

    YES - do that! choose a really nice frame, if she likes antiques then a nice antique frame and have the pic resized to fit - or a really smart modern frame!

    tbh, if in doubt about a gift I give photo frames!
  • annie12
    annie12 Posts: 788 Forumite
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    40 presents in a basket, hamper, flower pot......All individually wrapped.
    My mum did this for me this year. Loved it! :D
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