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Help! Toilet training! (and now sleep help needed)

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  • Person_one
    Person_one Posts: 28,884 Forumite
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    McKneff wrote: »
    and when you go back in, ignore him for a few minutes.

    Yep, sorry, should have said. Ignore him until he's calm, just do what you'd be doing anyway and let him get bored of boinging and spinning.

    (This may take some time, my 7 year old rescue dog still takes ages to calm down when I come in!)
  • McKneff
    McKneff Posts: 38,857 Forumite
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    boinging and spinning.

    I love that

    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
    make the most of it, we are only here for the weekend.
    and we will never, ever return.
  • jaqui59
    jaqui59 Posts: 393 Forumite
    I used to board dogs in my home, and when a dog decided not to settle when we went to bed, I used to go to them and gently push them back into their bed and growl at them, like a dog, in my deepest voice possible, ensuring I had eye contact with them at the same time .. It hardly ever failed, but I have to mention that this was on mature dogs only, and I don't know how a puppy would respond, but its probably worth a try.
    Some days I wake up Grumpy ... Other days I let him lie in.
  • Person_one
    Person_one Posts: 28,884 Forumite
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    jaqui59 wrote: »
    I used to board dogs in my home, and when a dog decided not to settle when we went to bed, I used to go to them and gently push them back into their bed and growl at them, like a dog, in my deepest voice possible, ensuring I had eye contact with them at the same time .. It hardly ever failed, but I have to mention that this was on mature dogs only, and I don't know how a puppy would respond, but its probably worth a try.

    Oh my word, OP do not do this!
  • Welshwoofs
    Welshwoofs Posts: 11,146 Forumite
    Now although it goes against all advice, I picked up my lad at 8 weeks and the first week he screamed the house down at night. I relented and he slept on the end of the bed...then he slept in the bed between the two of us. Him being a Neapolitan Mastiff it was soon impossible to have him in the bed and I ejected him to a dog bed near my bed. That went fine, then I moved the dog bed downstairs and that went fine too. He's not cried at night since that first week when he was a pup.
    “Don't do it! Stay away from your potential. You'll mess it up, it's potential, leave it. Anyway, it's like your bank balance - you always have a lot less than you think.”
    Dylan Moran
  • jaqui59
    jaqui59 Posts: 393 Forumite
    Person_one wrote: »
    Oh my word, OP do not do this!


    That was a very extreme reply ... Could I have an explanation please
    Some days I wake up Grumpy ... Other days I let him lie in.
  • McKneff
    McKneff Posts: 38,857 Forumite
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    It is tempting to let a dog into your bed, but I read something not too long ago that dogs can pick up bugs from a bed that can be really dangerous to a dog and the opposite transfer of dog bugs to humans applies also.
    make the most of it, we are only here for the weekend.
    and we will never, ever return.
  • Toothfairy4
    Toothfairy4 Posts: 1,398 Forumite
    Slept right through last night. 2 minutes of whinging wgen put to bed then total silence for the rest of the night :D He wasn't even jumping about like a mad man when i came down, just gave me a look of "oh hello" then came over for a fuss.
    Seems something has just clicked with him, heres hoping it stays like this :) thanks your all stars!!
  • Toothfairy4
    Toothfairy4 Posts: 1,398 Forumite
    Back again! He is still doing quite a lot of whinging when left on his own. Not too bad at night, few minutes of barking then settles down for the night but during the day even if i go upstairs to the loo he still whinges and barks. Longest he has been left alone so far is 2 hours. Does it usually take quite a few weeks to calm down when left alone?
  • Caroline_a
    Caroline_a Posts: 4,071 Forumite
    It's still very early days yet. Be patient, and don't make a fuss when you come back from leaving him. Are you going to take him to training classes - if you teach him 'wait' that is always a good one to get them settled down, once they suss that 'wait' means that you'll be coming back, but not know when :)
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