Tesco Discussion Chat & Grabbits 11+ Xmas/New Year Edition

sunshinestar101

HappyChappy84 wrote: »

Oh dear, I think you need to say something sooner rather than later as if you don't stand up for yourself now she will wall over you more and more in the future.

Me and DH have been together 9 years now - so im used to it...... I feel like i can only say so much though as DH is an only child - totally spoilt by his mum and dad - hes 32 fgs!!! lol. - cant moan too much about them as it snot fair on DH who feels stuck in the middle of it all..... his mum and dad have helped us out a lot - just annoys me that they have to keep reminding us of it though - kinda like blackmailing/laying on the guilt trip.... i just tend to ignore it though.

i do have my ways though, i know the way FILs mind works.... hes very sneaky and does whatever he can to get his own way.... dosen work with me though - sometimes i just gotta bite my tounge to keep the peace so to speak..... i know if i kick off, thats what he will want me to do...... especially at Xmas time - so he has an excuse to say ''aww - Come have xmas at ours instead Son.... Leave 'sunshinestar' to deal with her mood''

hes sooo controlling - i just have to be firm. which i am.. most of the time.... i just feel sorry for MIL really... dunno how she puts up with him.

APennysaved_2

Till tomorrow 11+...or rather, later today...

French_Knickers

APennysaved wrote: »

Till tomorrow 11+...or rather, later today...

nite nite! :wave:

sunshinestar101

frequent wrote: »

yeah but the kids don't know yet, she flew out this morning, don't know how to say it to them,they in bed now but in the morning they will notice that mummy isn't home, wasn't home this morning either, they 10 and 7 and not dumb.

aww - whats happened?? you ok??.. sorry - ive not been able to catch up and read back.... Hope your ok. - dunno if ive got the wrong end of the stick here - but she sounds like not a nice mum if shes done a runner on you and the kids so close to xmas.... Sending big big hugs to you!!!

and yeah, your right, kids arent dumb - but they ARE stronger than you think.

keep smiling hun. Santa will be here soon anyway. xxx

SaverSavvy123

mumsmoneysaverxx wrote: »

I don't know how it's doing, i darent open the oven haha!
We set the oven timer for 3hrs and 20mins when we put it in and it has 57 mins left on the timer

I think your right... 'night shift please remind me about the christmas cake in 57minutes!' Thankyou :A

Its ready!!!!!!

Brodie_mummy

anyone with hbos having trouble accessing their accounts online?
i am getting message saying account info unavailable.

frequent

sunshinestar101 wrote: »

oh dont get me started Happy..... i told her today that i would need the car as i needed to do some shopping.... she works nights, so said that when she wakes up, i could come to hers to get it.......
how was i to get to hers........ Walk - she suggested..... ok, its not that far - about a mile... BUT.. thats NOT the point....

ended up walking to hers, with a 5 year old having to walk it too, and me also pushing a pushchair with DS2 in..... knackered i was!!!

Then, had to wait outside till she woke up (about 20 mins of knocking the door!)

anyway, i get the car (for one hour!! - she needed it to do shopping too! - i WASNT going to go with her, the mood i was in!! lol) - No diesel in it - so had to put a tenner in the car too..... was nearly full when i lent her it!!!

Sometimes its sooo hard to bite my tounge.... she MUST know what an !!!! she is sometimes..... but i blame it on her husband TBH - hes more of an !!!! than her - he just tells her what to do...

Found out today too -He has Diabeteis (sp?) - hs to be monitored a lot regarding this..... Had his blood test results back from Docs... he was told he needs to go on more tablets as his Blood sugar is way too high......

prob made worse by the fact he drinks 12 bottles of pop a week...sometimes more!!! (the big cheap sugary pop!!) and lays in bed all day!!


anyway - rant over now..... i could go on forever.... lol



got a bit carried away there didnt i...

not at all vent all you need to, solution is to get own car and give their one back, end of. easier said than done...understand my tractor is old

Hows the belly ?

HappyChappy84

Brodie_mummy wrote: »

anyone with hbos having trouble accessing their accounts online?
i am getting message saying account info unavailable.

I can't access my online banking with RBS between 2am and 2:30am as that's when access is restricted for payments going in and out. Different banks have different times. When I was Clydesdale the time for them was 11pm the night before so early money.:money:

Brodie_mummy

HappyChappy84 wrote: »

I've just seen an advert saying that Jedward will be in celebrity Big Brother. Firstly, since when did they become celebrities, and secondly, weren't they in the last CBB?

Amy childs in that ad too and she was also in the last 1, maybe they are trying to save money and just doing re runs lol:rotfl:

sunshinestar101

Anyway - Im off up the little wooden hill....

Goodnight Boys, Girls, ladies and Gentlemen... Its been a pleasure, as always.

xx
Heres a lil xmas piccie to make you smile..... it did me anyway.