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  • ani_26
    ani_26 Posts: 3,700 Forumite
    Aesop is right. Esa is a separate benefit / department and it's up to you to communicate regarding Dla separately. I'm surprised they didn't tell you this at the time. But at least dla increases your entitlement to hb and ctb when bf stops paying the bills, ( i'm sure you mentioned this somewhere recently.)

    Have a good holiday. :)
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  • Hiddenidenity
    Hiddenidenity Posts: 5,423 Forumite
    ani_26 wrote: »
    Aesop is right. Esa is a separate benefit / department and it's up to you to communicate regarding Dla separately. I'm surprised they didn't tell you this at the time. But at least dla increases your entitlement to hb and ctb when bf stops paying the bills, ( i'm sure you mentioned this somewhere recently.)

    Have a good holiday. :)

    Hello hope your ok I'll def call them Monday to see whats going on.

    I still wont get any benefits when he buys somewhere nearer work, becuqase no doubt he will stay here at weekedns, especially until treatments over.
  • Aesop
    Aesop Posts: 23,773 Forumite
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    HI, you are still entitled to the DLA because of your condition, it does not matter if BF is living with you or not. But call them on Monday and decide what you want to do then.
  • Hiddenidenity
    Hiddenidenity Posts: 5,423 Forumite
    Aesop wrote: »
    HI, you are still entitled to the DLA because of your condition, it does not matter if BF is living with you or not. But call them on Monday and decide what you want to do then.


    Thank you :) Im just going to call tomake sure everythings right as it seems too good to be true, If it is true great, it will definatly help with costs over the next few months x

    Hope your ok? x
  • Aesop
    Aesop Posts: 23,773 Forumite
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    I'm ok, promised to take DS to a seaside like place we have locally. As it is sunny today, have to keep to my promise. We live in the city, so it is manmade, but nice.

    Are you any good at drawing HI? I am trying to find a nice clipart of family cartoon style. I found one I liked, but I think it is copyrighted and belongs to the company I found it via.
  • Hiddenidenity
    Hiddenidenity Posts: 5,423 Forumite
    Aesop wrote: »
    I'm ok, promised to take DS to a seaside like place we have locally. As it is sunny today, have to keep to my promise. We live in the city, so it is manmade, but nice.

    Are you any good at drawing HI? I am trying to find a nice clipart of family cartoon style. I found one I liked, but I think it is copyrighted and belongs to the company I found it via.


    Sounds lovely hope you have a nice time :)

    Can you pm me a pic I will have a go this afternoon why I have no kids :D x
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,485 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    DLA is yours to keep whatever your other circumstances.
    It is awarded because of your illness and there is no need to notify them of a change of circumstances unless your condtion changes IYSWIM?It is not means tested in any way. Have they awarded you care?.You will be able to treat yourself :j :j
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  • Hiddenidenity
    Hiddenidenity Posts: 5,423 Forumite
    beanielou wrote: »
    DLA is yours to keep whatever your other circumstances.
    It is awarded because of your illness and there is no need to notify them of a change of circumstances unless your condtion changes IYSWIM?It is not means tested in any way. Have they awarded you care?.You will be able to treat yourself :j :j

    Ahh that makes sense thank you :)

    Yer High Care Low Mobility I might speak to them as I dont think I really have a problem with being mobile (unless they mean to/from appointments etc?) So confusing I have no idea.
  • Hiddenidenity
    Hiddenidenity Posts: 5,423 Forumite
    10 minute break from cooking/baking

    Curry in the slow cooker and baking nearly done Choc chip cookies, coconut biscuits, Austrailian crunch and apple crumble. I cant seem to stop cooking I usually hate it but these last few weeks it really makes me feel good :)
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,485 Ambassador
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    Ahh that makes sense thank you :)

    Yer High Care Low Mobility I might speak to them as I dont think I really have a problem with being mobile (unless they mean to/from appointments etc?) So confusing I have no idea.

    No need to speak to them.
    That is pretty much a standard award for someone in your circumstances.How long is award for?
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
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