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  • Hiddenidenity
    Hiddenidenity Posts: 5,423 Forumite
    Aesop wrote: »
    Sorry hun, would like to help but can't. Hope things sort themselves xx

    Thank yo, No one can help its not money for once. Makes a change saying that. Its something I have to do, and on my own. I dont know that doesnt even make sense

    Hope your ok? x
  • Hovel_lady
    Hovel_lady Posts: 4,291 Forumite
    Hiddenidenity wrote: »
    Why do I feel so unhappy, and down when really I should feel really happy?

    I'm really struggling today, I have a problem hanging over me I cant sort for a few days but until then it feels like I've the weight of the world on my shoulders. I cant tell "friend", I cant tell anyone. I need to sort it somehow the early the better yes at the latest its only 6 days, but I cant rest, I cant eat, I cant talk. "Friends" took the kids to the zoo, I should be doing something, Anything? But Im sat not knowing where to turn or what to do ...
    Sorry you're feeling low :kisses3:

    Anything we can help with? xx
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,468 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Anyway we can help?
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  • ScarlettOHara_2
    ScarlettOHara_2 Posts: 312 Forumite
    Hope you feel better soon. Do you have a clear plan for how to fix the problem?
    As God is my witness, as God is my witness they're not going to lick me. I'm going to live through this and when it's all over, I'll never be hungry again
  • Hiddenidenity
    Hiddenidenity Posts: 5,423 Forumite
    Thank you all xx Means alot

    I dont think so, Unless any of you are offering to fix my mind :P

    Hope your all well x
  • Aesop
    Aesop Posts: 23,773 Forumite
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    so sorry hun :( is it something that you can mentally put in a box, lock with a key, and throw away for good? and treat as dealt with forever?
  • Hiddenidenity
    Hiddenidenity Posts: 5,423 Forumite
    Aesop wrote: »
    so sorry hun :( is it something that you can mentally put in a box, lock with a key, and throw away for good? and treat as dealt with forever?

    I really hope so, I thought I had tbh. I don't know why things have resurfaced and are affectign me now. Maybe it's because Im letting someone close, which I havent allowed for a long time.
  • Hiddenidenity
    Hiddenidenity Posts: 5,423 Forumite
    So checked online accounts that were in debt and all payments have now cleared. So debt standing now I owe my friend £250 which will be clear the 10th, also £100 to someone who will be cleared the 4th. Ive set my so to pay me "friend" back at £25 a week every Thursday.

    I suppose I dont belong here anymore once thats done :(
  • ScarlettOHara_2
    ScarlettOHara_2 Posts: 312 Forumite
    Brilliant well done. I'm sure you are still welcome on here - who else is going to read my diary ;-)

    I'm really pleased that you have got sorted and hopefully things will now be a lot easier for you.
    As God is my witness, as God is my witness they're not going to lick me. I'm going to live through this and when it's all over, I'll never be hungry again
  • Hiddenidenity
    Hiddenidenity Posts: 5,423 Forumite
    ScarlettOHara wrote: »
    Brilliant well done. I'm sure you are still welcome on here - who else is going to read my diary ;-)

    I'm really pleased that you have got sorted and hopefully things will now be a lot easier for you.

    Aww thank you :)

    I can use the debt to my friend an excuse seeing as at £25 it will take nearly 3 years :rotfl:
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