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Elderly Parents, with a Non Refundable Deposit, Help Please

mwilliam
Posts: 4 Newbie
Hi
Please can anyone advise me?
My elderly parents went to purchase a car from a Main Stream Dealer. They gave a deposit of £250. This is 2 weeks worth of their Pension. They decided with-in 24 hours that they did not want the car so went back to the garage and asked for their refund. They were told “NO” and it was a non refundable deposit.
As you can imagine they were very distressed at this, so my Husband went down, spoke to the manager who advised that they had signed a contract. My Parents told me that it was never explained to them that is was non refundable, otherwise they would not part with that sort of money.
I have written to the Dealership explaining the situation of 80 year old parents and would appreciate any feedback anyone can give in helping me claim their money back. Thank You
Please can anyone advise me?
My elderly parents went to purchase a car from a Main Stream Dealer. They gave a deposit of £250. This is 2 weeks worth of their Pension. They decided with-in 24 hours that they did not want the car so went back to the garage and asked for their refund. They were told “NO” and it was a non refundable deposit.
As you can imagine they were very distressed at this, so my Husband went down, spoke to the manager who advised that they had signed a contract. My Parents told me that it was never explained to them that is was non refundable, otherwise they would not part with that sort of money.
I have written to the Dealership explaining the situation of 80 year old parents and would appreciate any feedback anyone can give in helping me claim their money back. Thank You
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Legally the dealership is entirely within their rights.
All you can do is appeal to their better nature - maybe to their Head Office
But don't hold your breath0 -
I agree with Dzug, and I really cant see what their ages have to do with anything.
They decided to buy a car and to be honest at 80 plus they should have known and probably did the meaning of a deposit
Why did they decide that they didnt want it any more.make the most of it, we are only here for the weekend.
and we will never, ever return.0 -
Presumably they have a receipt (Or other paperwork) for their deposit?
What does THAT say?Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY"I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily DickinsonJanice 1964-2016
Thank you Honey Bear0 -
Read this op, very useful information:
https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/comment/42873192#Comment_428731920 -
I agree with Dzug, and I really cant see what their ages have to do with anything.
They decided to buy a car and to be honest at 80 plus they should have known and probably did the meaning of a deposit
Why did they decide that they didnt want it any more.
Ages quoted because, they are elderly are going a little senile..Yes they did know what a deposit was and is, but did not know it was a Non Refundable Deposit...0 -
They are going senile and want to buy a car???0
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Read this op, very useful information:
https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/comment/42873192#Comment_42873192
Excellent post. The link even uses second hand car sales as an example, and exactly as per the OP's parents situation.
Edit: OP doesn't say if it was a new or second hand car. Sorry.0 -
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Yes... Senile as in old age.. Happens to us all, I am afraid!
They want to potter around and have some independance, in their final years...
I think the point being made was :eek: as their child do you believe they are safe enough to be on the road, when they are senile enough to be misunderstanding what a deposit is?
My dad (bless him) decided to give up his car when he got to the stage where he was getting confused with traffic signs and directions and felt that he was likely to be a danger to other road users with his dithering. On the other hand my neighbours who are wonderful areboth 80 and he is still driving and is as sharp as a knife and is probably a better driver than many younger people on the roads. It was you yourself though that raised the issue of your parents beign 'senile' so maybe you need to be brave and tackle them about maybe giving up the car?I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the eBay, Auctions, Car Boot & Jumble Sales, Boost Your Income, Praise, Vents & Warnings, Overseas Holidays & Travel Planning , UK Holidays, Days Out & Entertainments boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know.. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com.All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.0
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