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Expecting too much??

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  • Enchantica
    Enchantica Posts: 551 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Hey hun, firstly, BIG HUGS. Right there with ya, we are really on the run up to our big days now aren't we :) And we have lots of last minute little things to do. You will have so much to think about that this just feels like yet another thing. Give the venue a call and see if they do draft, I would be really surprised if they didn't. See if they can work something out for you if they don't. Explain that your Grandad doesn't drink anything else and could there be an exception made. They can only say yes or no really, if they say no then you did your best. Smuggle a can or 2 in your garter! Lol. Hope you get something worked out. x
  • ampafc
    ampafc Posts: 614 Forumite
    One of those little things that would probably be sorted with a quick phonecall, as opposed to stressing yourself out.

    Remember it's very difficult to make everyone happy all of the time. Just try not to let all of the little things get you down and spil your wedding prep too much. I'm sure come the day everything will be forgotten about and you will have a wonderful day :)
    Getting married to a wonderful lady on August 10, 2012.

    Need to save up, lose weight, reduce my money worries and get back to being the real me! :j
  • anmarj
    anmarj Posts: 1,826 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    try not to worry, at least you have spoken to her and explained. My mum complained at my wedding evening do that she had to pay for her drinks and stated that I had told her we had a free bar when I had not told her that! Had I not walked away, she would of gone for a FULL row with me about it!!!!!:eek:
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