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advice needed about numpty seller

Hi guys i am after some advice

the story starts were buying a house agreed price we were both happy with. the seller then said someone else was interested in the property so we went to the full asking price and they accepted all going fine nowe apart from going 2 grand above what we offered

today our solicitor has informed us that his solicitor has asked if we would give his client 50%of the deposit we have paid so that he can pay off some debt some 8 grand

the advice i am after is should i say to them he can have the cash if we exchange and complete on the same day

or
tell him no chance and pull out of the sale
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  • rizla01
    rizla01 Posts: 7,260 Forumite
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    Your 1st option sounds favourite but make sure that his solicitor is bone fide. and then agree with those conditions E&C on the same day plus reduction to the original agreed price.

    He is obviously in a spot so take advantage.
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  • glen5213
    glen5213 Posts: 335 Forumite
    thanks i must be to naive i did not even think about taking an advantage
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  • silvercar
    silvercar Posts: 50,814 Ambassador
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    No, don't do it. deposits can only be used to act as deposits further up the chain. you let him use this money and you have no fallback position if the chain goes belly-up. your deposit has disappeared and he will have no way of repaying it. this only happens rarely but it is a risk. solicitors always advise that deposits remain with the sellers solicitors.

    what happens if he needs this money to repay all the charges on his property? He has used the money to repay debts elsewhere and there is insufficient funds to repay the mortgage. result is you could end up paying even more, so that the charge on the property will be released.

    he is clearly in a financial mess, but he should be able to tell his creditors that he has exchanged and they will get their money in a week or two. Ask your solicitor if he advises that the deposit be released, bet the answer is no!

    can't emphasise enough how bad an idea this is. you are lending someone money; all you know about them is that they have some financial problems. Its not a good idea!

    exchange and completion on the same day are fine as there is no deposit then.
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