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  • traceyaec
    traceyaec Posts: 10 Forumite
    All the debt is in some way related to gambling in one form or other...
    Money he has had to borrow to pay back gambling debts and then he used all sorts of credit cards and took loans to juggle the payments........ and so it went on and got worse ........
    traceyaec:p
  • CLAPTON
    CLAPTON Posts: 41,865 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    how are these debts being serviced? unless you have remortgaged to pay for these surely you must be paying very large monthly payments

    maybe you might feel you want to post a SOA and get soem advice about the overall financial situation?
  • traceyaec
    traceyaec Posts: 10 Forumite
    Husband is now with payplan and is getting help some is remortgage. what is
    SOA?
    traceyaec:p
  • Pobby
    Pobby Posts: 5,438 Forumite
    Hi tracey
    I have taken the liberty of sending you a private message.
  • Pobby
    Pobby Posts: 5,438 Forumite
    Just bumping it up!
  • bank_of_slate
    bank_of_slate Posts: 12,922 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Hi Tracey,
    It must have been a huge shock to find that out!
    What support do you have in place?
    Of course we are always here to offer advice (not to judge) but it looks like you have a bumpy road ahead, and unless he can open up and you both want to continue together, it'll be even bumpier!
    Seek professional advice, look at Payplan, CCCs and this site for advice.
    I wish you loads of luck
    ...Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
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