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Death Notices in Dunmurry Area

My OH's birth mother lives in NI, she's only in her sixties but she has decided that she does not want contact with OH as none of her family are aware of his birth.

Thing is we would not be aware of her death (unless her partner/children found papers and made contact) and wondered if death notices for the Dunmurry area are published on the internet.

As I don't know NI very well at all, unsure whether Dunmurry area is too vague, if you need me to be more specific by area, let me know.

Any help would be much appreciated.

Thanks.

Ms C x
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  • Belfast Telegraph don't appear to list them online. Irish News only let you access death notices if you are a subscriber to the site. News Letter don't appear to have online access either.

    Apart from the aforementined local newspapers, I can't think of any where else that they would be published online.

    This probably hasn't helped you very much I'm afraid, sorry!
  • Ms_Chocaholic
    Ms_Chocaholic Posts: 12,767 Forumite
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    Thanks. Do you know which paper it is likely that they would put the notice in given that they live in that area.
    Thrifty Till 50 Then Spend Till the End
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  • Jersy
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    very pessimistic watching the papers to see if OH's mum is dead!

    dunmurry could either be in ulster star or belfast telegraph

    with regards to the irish news it would depend on her religion
  • Ms_Chocaholic
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    We don't want her to die, we'd love her to contact my OH but she feels unable to cos family are unaware of his existence.

    We were thinking that, should she die, we could then attempt to contact (after a lengthy period of time) her children (OH half siblings) and ask if they would like contact, however we would be unaware of her death.

    She is Protestant.
    Thrifty Till 50 Then Spend Till the End
    You can please some of the people some of the time, all of the people some of the time, some of the people all of the time but you can never please all of the people all of the time
  • Ms_Chocaholic
    Ms_Chocaholic Posts: 12,767 Forumite
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    We don't want her to die, we'd love her to contact my OH but she feels unable to cos family are unaware of his existence.

    We were thinking that, should she die, we could then attempt to contact (after a lengthy period of time) her children (OH half siblings) and ask if they would like contact, however we would be unaware of her death.

    She is Protestant.
    Thrifty Till 50 Then Spend Till the End
    You can please some of the people some of the time, all of the people some of the time, some of the people all of the time but you can never please all of the people all of the time
  • Jersy
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    ahh ok

    wouldnt bother with the irish news then

    and i dont think many people ready the news letter its crap!

    more than likely it would be the belfast telegraph
  • tanith
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    Would it not be possible for you to maybe contact a local Priest that knows OH's mother and make him aware of the situation in confidence and ask that he contact you should she die. Not sure if this would be possible but just an idea......
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  • Ms_Chocaholic
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    tanith wrote:
    Would it not be possible for you to maybe contact a local Priest that knows OH's mother and make him aware of the situation in confidence and ask that he contact you should she die. Not sure if this would be possible but just an idea......


    I'm not sure I'd trust anyone with this information (priest or no priest) as if the info got out she would be devastated.

    Sorry to any priests who might be reading this !
    Thrifty Till 50 Then Spend Till the End
    You can please some of the people some of the time, all of the people some of the time, some of the people all of the time but you can never please all of the people all of the time
  • tanith
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    its a difficult one and no mistake.....
    #6 of the SKI-ers Club :j

    "All that is necessary for evil to triumph is for good men to do nothing" Edmund Burke
  • Jersy
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    ps.. if shes a protestant, the priest might not be the right person to go to!
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