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my debt story

bigalvit1 · 2011-08-31 00:53:29

Hi everyone not been on the forum for a very long time, I thought I would tell you my story so far so here goes.... I am 40 and my wife and I have been having communication problems for a while I tried to make myself happier by buying stuff on my credit cards and buying gifts for her to prove my love> things all came to a…

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dancingfairy Posts: 9,069 Forumite

31 August 2011 at 12:01PM

So you've got into difficulties twice before and she isn't taking more notice of what you're doing/spending? Sounds a bit odd to me, usually people have to work very hard to win someone's trust back after just once, presumably she's happy as long as she can blame you for the mismanagement/budgetting issues?
As has been said - perhaps there's more here than just money issues. Perhaps a chat via relate or similar would help ensure you're on the same page?
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