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Help me with my last minute wedding :) !
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Hi Wedding Twin Zimm190 :T
Thanks for all the replies so far!
Registrar Costs
It costs £100 for the service and £33.50 for the notice of marriage, but I hadn't realised that was each! So thanks Mrs Drink for that.
New budget cost £167.00
Sammy_wheeler The ceremony is at 11am; it is the only time that was available, but my H2B is pleased with this, as his team are playing at 12:45 on the day, so it means he can watch the match :rotfl:But it does mean we need to feed both day and night guests. Day guests are all very close family and would pay for their own meals at a push, but we'll see how the budget is nearer the day, as I would like to pay for them, if we can.
Evening Party Costs
The 125 does include the day guests and some children, so I will speak to the venue about their experience on how the buffet 'holds up' against guest numbers, thanks rainbowdrops.
There is no venue cost other than the buffet cost
I wouldnt cater for everyone coming in the evening as a pp said... most venues advise 75%.... your evening guests will have already had dinner so will just have a little pick - this is the best place to save money.
Invite Costs
I will get some estimates from ebay sellers, but if it is upwards of £50, I will look into making these ourselves.
Look on vistaprint. I got over £100 personalised invites for £40 (this was pushed up because I needed them on swift delivery so will prob be around the £30 mark for you!)
Photography Costs
I do know an amateur photographer friend, but when I previously asked if he would take wedding photo's he said he wouldn't want the responsibility! But I will ask him if he knows anyone who would do it for £50/100, and just give us a disc with all the shots. I would only want a few photo's for during the service and after the service, so they would only have to be around for 1 hour tops. I think £50/£100 is our max saintly, so that probably rules your friend out, but thanks.
Potential new budget cost £100.00 Max (with development costs later)
I put up an add on hitched and you and your wedding for a free photographer.. saying we just wanted a disc and they could use the photos for any promo work etc they wanted. We got a photographer that wanted to add a winter wedding to his portfolio, just paid his expenses of £50 plus gave him a meal!
For the evening, I would hopefully rely on friends and family to take lots of pictures, and then obtain copies of those.
Transport
The day guests will either be drinking or cannot drive, and I dont feel comfortable asking one of my friends to chauffer me, when I am only inviting them to the evening (even though it is only because of cost) If somebody offers, I will snap their hands off
Wedding Cake
I will speak to the venue about cutting the dessert from the buffet and then I can afford a cake. The M&S ones look great. Thanks rainbowdrops
Asda has lovely cupcakes which where 4 £1... get a few of those on a stand - gorgeous!
Outfits
I haven't spoken to H2B about this in great detail, but I budgeted £250 for me and £200 for him, so that he doesn't feel left out. I'm sure we can get this a lot lower, especailly as I am planning on having a low key dress.
Ebay is a lifesaver! My dress was Sacha James 2010 (i got married in 2010 so was a new design) brand new - it was stick from a bankrupt shop - never even tried on! and cost £200! You OH could get a new suit for £100 - are you anywhere near a discoutn village? My oh got a new suit from the M&S in freeport for £89!
Honeymoon Costs
We have budgeted the honeymoon seperately, and I will travel on my exisiting passport, but thanks for the heads up.
First night accommodation
Our venue is not a hotel, but there is hotel nearby where I think we will be having our meal with the day guests, so we want to reserve a room there, so we can freshen up in the day. I am a member of the gym at this hotel, so I will try and negociate the price of the room.
Wedding rings
lollyb84 I would love a platinum wedding, I only want a 2mm one. I have seen an ebay seller who can do this for a good price, but I dont want to force H2B down a cheap route in order for me to have a fab ring
Hair & Make Up
I was planning on going to the Clinique counter for make up, and buying a lipstickBut I think that my hair will be money well spent. I think if I mention 'Wedding' prices will shoot up, but I will shop around and see what is what. I will also ask friends, but nobody springs to mind.
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Sorry Boris...but forum rules say that you cant advertise your own company on these forums...its classed as Spam and your post will be deleted if you dont remove it...sorryfrugal October...£41.82 of £40 food shopping spend for the 2 of us!
2017 toiletries challenge 179 out 145 in ...£18.64 spend0 -
The Tesco cakes are just plain, white rich fruit cakes, ready to decorate. They are in a pale blue box.Total Debt: 1383/ £8121
Aiming to clear 50% by Xmas 2012 :j0 -
tesco do have white celebration cakes in large medium or small sizes already but they are bringing out a ready tiered, simply decorated one too just dont know when!I am not bossy I just have better ideas:p0
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