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Poems for a funeral needed

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  • astonsmummy
    astonsmummy Posts: 14,219 Forumite
    fribblet wrote:
    Do not stand at my grave and weep,
    I am not there, I do not sleep.

    I am a thousand winds that blow.
    I am the diamond glint on snow.
    I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
    I am the gentle autumn rain.

    When you wake in the morning hush,
    I am the swift, uplifting rush
    Of quiet birds in circling flight.
    I am the soft starlight at night.

    Do not stand at my grave and weep.
    I am not there, I do not sleep.

    Mary Frye (1932)
    They had this poem at my firends funeral, very touching x
    :j Baby boy Number 2, arrived 12th April 2009!:j
  • joaniemerc
    joaniemerc Posts: 615 Forumite
    Only a little one, but summed up my Beloved Aunt beautifully:

    Always thoughtful
    Always kind
    Treasured memories
    Left behind.
  • Hi All,
    well we've gone with a poem create by Knelly,more of a personal touch,
    Here goes..

    Ivy

    Ivy with her rosy cheeks and a heart of purest gold.
    Lived a life full of joy, a story waiting to be told.
    Making tea's at the age of 18 it was her dearest Trevor she met,
    She railroaded him to 64 years of marriage without any regret.
    They wed on Boxing Day in '42, and lived their life together long.
    A life of love and understanding that kept them going strong
    They raised 5 daughters through good and bad, and cherished them everyday.
    This gave them fifteen grand children and nine great grandchildren with no
    doubt more on the way!

    She worked so long for Mrs Hughes, who loved her like her own.
    Pinky was a lady bred the greatest that any of us have known.
    A cup and saucer in her hand with no milk, just one sugar and tea.
    Ivy always gave stern warning; if anything but this did she see!

    Her love for Pennies hairdressers is something we all saw, without fail
    every week she would walk through that door.
    Her teddy dog with funny glasses, will never look the same, it was always by
    her side when ever family came.

    As Ivy has gone on a journey, with Haydn Thomas she will be.
    A place that is deep in our hearts, where loving thoughts is all they will
    see.
    Where the sun shining through rainy clouds, will shine down and make us
    All smile.
    As Ivy will be looking upon us, she will visit us once in a while.
    So remember as the train starts its journey, with Ivy aboard,
    That she will be waiting for the clouds to disappear, so she can shine on
    us all and will always be near.


    Went to see hwer tonight at the funeral home.. was so lovely.. so peaceful and funeral home had made her beautiful.just bit sad now. ;-(

    The funeral is tomorrow...

    Just listening to 'You raise me up' and 'The prayer'..bit tearful..bring nice thoughts listening to soppy songs though.

    Thanks all again and special thanks to knelly.. brilliaint!

    Richie xxx
  • tracy1_2
    tracy1_2 Posts: 283 Forumite
    lost my nan in may last year we had this as well as others - we even had 'Grandma's Feather Bed' an old cowpie song by John Denver we all used to sing to her. This poem was read at the Queen mum's funeral



    ‘You can shed a tear’


    You can shed tears that they have gone
    or you can smile because they have lived.

    You can close your eyes and pray that they will come back
    or you can open your eyes and see all they have left.

    Your heart can be empty because you can’t see them
    or you can be full of the love you shared.
    You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday
    or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.

    You can remember them and only that they’ve gone
    or you may cherish their memory and let it live on.

    You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back
    or you can do what they would want:

    Smile, open your eyes, love and go on.
    (Anon)
  • Forreal
    Forreal Posts: 117 Forumite
    fribblet wrote:
    Do not stand at my grave and weep,
    I am not there, I do not sleep.

    I am a thousand winds that blow.
    I am the diamond glint on snow.
    I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
    I am the gentle autumn rain.

    When you wake in the morning hush,
    I am the swift, uplifting rush
    Of quiet birds in circling flight.
    I am the soft starlight at night.

    Do not stand at my grave and weep.
    I am not there, I do not sleep.

    Mary Frye (1932)


    I read ths one at my mum's funeral - so unexpected and so missed - it still gives me comfort now!!!
    The best things in life are free.....or at least discounted!!!
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