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Devastated

Hi,

I recently viewed a house three times with my partner and decided to put in an offer, it was accepted and we started to sort all of the other stuff out like mortgage, insurance etc. We had paid for surveys as well... However we hadn't exchanged contracts just verbal ones. I recieved a call telling me they had withdrawn the offer today. I know there is pretty much nothing I can do but if anyone has any suggestions they would be much appreciated as I am totally gutted as I fell in love with this house...

At the moment the ex-sellers have not even given a reason for pulling out :(
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  • missjy
    missjy Posts: 133 Forumite
    *hugs*
    But I think until completion anyone can pull out. I wish I could offer you more reassurance x
  • sonastin
    sonastin Posts: 3,210 Forumite
    Start looking for a better house...

    There is little, if anything, you can do to change the situation with this house. The best bet for your sanity is to chalk it up to experience and walk away. Anything else is likely to wind you up and stress you out.

    If it helps, very few people on this forum regret "the one that got away". Loads of us (myself included) have missed out on a house - often after spending loads on surveys etc - only to find that the one we end up with is actually more suitable than the place we thought we "loved". Get looking for your "thank god we got this and didn't end up in that sh!thole!" place as quickly as possible...
  • hazyjo
    hazyjo Posts: 15,475 Forumite
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    We lost a great house too, but it does tend to happen for a reason. We're in a much nicer one now, with a better commute for me, and it cost us £40k less than the other one.

    I know it's hard, but try not to fixate too much on what you've lost, and get busy searching again.

    I'm afraid there's naff all you can do to get any costs back, etc. Try pleading poverty with the EA and the sellers might find it in their hearts to give you something, but if they've not even given you a reason, I certainly wouldn't hold your breath!

    Good luck.

    Jx
    2024 wins: *must start comping again!*
  • FireWyrm
    FireWyrm Posts: 6,557 Forumite
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    Hi,

    I recently viewed a house three times with my partner and decided to put in an offer, it was accepted and we started to sort all of the other stuff out like mortgage, insurance etc. We had paid for surveys as well... However we hadn't exchanged contracts just verbal ones. I recieved a call telling me they had withdrawn the offer today. I know there is pretty much nothing I can do but if anyone has any suggestions they would be much appreciated as I am totally gutted as I fell in love with this house...

    At the moment the ex-sellers have not even given a reason for pulling out :(

    Oh dear. Commiserations. I had exactly the same thing happen to me the other month. It's gutting and especially when you have no explanation. All anyone can do is offer a shoulder.
    Debt Free! Long road, but we did it
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  • LandyAndy
    LandyAndy Posts: 26,377 Forumite
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    FireWyrm wrote: »
    Oh dear. Commiserations. I had exactly the same thing happen to me the other month. It's gutting and especially when you have no explanation. All anyone can do is offer a shoulder.

    Is that a firm offer or are you likely to withdraw it without notice?
  • G_M
    G_M Posts: 51,977 Forumite
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    missjy wrote: »
    *hugs*
    But I think until completion anyone can pull out. I wish I could offer you more reassurance x
    Exchange of Contracts.

    (sorry - pedantic I know....)
  • FireWyrm
    FireWyrm Posts: 6,557 Forumite
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    LandyAndy wrote: »
    Is that a firm offer or are you likely to withdraw it without notice?

    Only until exchange of contracts....until then, it can be withdrawn at any time for any reason and there's not a damned thing you can do about it, nah nah nah nah nah :p
    Debt Free! Long road, but we did it
    Meet my best friend : YNAB (you need a budget)
    My other best friend is a filofax.
    Do or do not, there is no try....Yoda.

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  • missjy
    missjy Posts: 133 Forumite
    Sorry - my mistake ;)
  • LandyAndy
    LandyAndy Posts: 26,377 Forumite
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    FireWyrm wrote: »
    Only until exchange of contracts....until then, it can be withdrawn at any time for any reason and there's not a damned thing you can do about it, nah nah nah nah nah :p

    If only sympathy was as well organised in England as it is Scotland.:)
  • ££sc££
    ££sc££ Posts: 247 Forumite
    You have my sympathies, however much everyone says don't set your heart on a house, I can't help it!

    Good luck in finding perfect house no. 2
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