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DCFC79
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Ive been asked to write a character reference, now then having not done 1 before i have no idea what i should write and should i even be doing it eg should it not be someone who has known the person for sometime eg longer than 3 - 4 years.
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Just say how long you have known the person for and if they are a reliable, flexible person just say. Also you could mention if you were looking for employee's you would employ them and say why, just point out the good points.It's better to regret something I did do than to regret something that I didn’t. :EasterBun0
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Just say how long you have known the person for and if they are a reliable, flexible person just say. Also you could mention if you were looking for employee's you would employ them and say why, just point out the good points.
Is that it, ive never had to get 1 before(when looking for a job) and thought it was something a person would be best at doing who had known the person for some time.0 -
If you don't fell comfortable doing one don't do it. I don't mind writing them as long as I have known the person for at least 1 year.It's better to regret something I did do than to regret something that I didn’t. :EasterBun0
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Don't worry hun you will be fineIt's better to regret something I did do than to regret something that I didn’t. :EasterBun0
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I take it this is not one wriiten on a form provided by the future employer and is totally composed by you.
There is a certain way of doing it and it may be worth consulting the library and finding a book on business letter writing.
You cannot write any negative criticism as that could constitute a libel, so if you feel the urge to do that, then decline writing the reference at all.
I found one fairly good sample letter here which might be of interest:
http://www.writeanygenre.com/character-reference-letter-writing.html
Do not copy and paste any part of this or any other letter you find in electronic form by the way as that will be so, so noticeable. Make it totally original using plain language with short sentences etc. I would consider hand writing it neatly if it is for a friend.0 -
for a character reference; just tell them to do it themselves and send it to you. If you agree with it then sign it and send it. If you don't, modify it and send it.0
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Mistral001 wrote: »I take it this is not one wriiten on a form provided by the future employer and is totally composed by you.
There is a certain way of doing it and it may be worth consulting the library and finding a book on business letter writing.
You cannot write any negative criticism as that could constitute a libel, so if you feel the urge to do that, then decline writing the reference at all.
I found one fairly good sample letter here which might be of interest:
http://www.writeanygenre.com/character-reference-letter-writing.html
Do not copy and paste any part of this or any other letter you find in electronic form by the way as that will be so, so noticeable. Make it totally original using plain language with short sentences etc. I would consider hand writing it neatly if it is for a friend.
well ive not received it yet, i was only asked tonight if i would do it. Yes it will be hand written as i was asked for my address. Ill give that link a read.scheming_gypsy wrote: »for a character reference; just tell them to do it themselves and send it to you. If you agree with it then sign it and send it. If you don't, modify it and send it.
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If you havent received it yet then dont stress yet. Most references are done on forms with a series of short questions to answer rather than them expecting you to freeform write an essay on the person.
If it is the older style its fairly simple and short in terms of confirming how you know the person, how long and generally saying you believe them to be honest, trustworthy, reliable or any other such characteristics.0
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