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How much rent?

I'm 18 and about to start an apprenticeship. My parents expect me to pay rent, which I completely agree with, but we can't decide how much. I will be earning £700 a month, paying £200 toward my car each month and £25 for my phone bill. Which leaves me with £475 for rent and general expenditure. Please can you advise what you think a fair amonut of rent per month is?
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  • Kara_P
    Kara_P Posts: 111 Forumite
    It depends on what is included in your rent e.g. food for lunch, cable tv etc.

    When I was your age I was paying £80 a month but I only had a part time job.
  • MacMickster
    MacMickster Posts: 3,646 Forumite
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    Your parents will no longer be getting child benefit (about £20 per week) or child tax credit (about £10). Also, as you are now earning I would expect you to contribute a bit more than this - say £200 per month.
    "When the people fear the government there is tyranny, when the government fears the people there is liberty." - Thomas Jefferson
  • McKneff
    McKneff Posts: 38,857 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Your car pyments and mobile phone bill is irrellevant, paying for your food and keep is first on your list to pay.

    At least £55 a week £250 a month. It'd be a lot more if you moved out and lived independantly.

    And congratulations on getting an apprenticeship.
    make the most of it, we are only here for the weekend.
    and we will never, ever return.
  • Catblue
    Catblue Posts: 872 Forumite
    I would think about 200 per month is about right, just less than a third of your take-home pay. That leaves you enough to live on and maybe save a little bit.

    I think you should keep all of your first month's salary though - maybe treat your parents to a meal out or something?
  • theartfullodger
    theartfullodger Posts: 15,778 Forumite
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    You should pay roughly what it would cost you to rent a room in similar conditions nearby... oddly I can't work out what that would be..

    Have a look in local papers/newsagent windows/Gumtree...

    Good for you for at least planning on paying your bit! Too many seem just want to sponge off parents...
  • olias
    olias Posts: 3,588 Forumite
    I would say it depends entirely on your parents expectations. Are they expecting just a 'token jesture' to help with the bills, and to get you used to the big bad world of financial commitments, or are they expecting a full market rent for a rented room.

    Personally, I disagree with a parent wanting a proper market rate rent from their own child, however I do agree with them requiring a contribution towards expenses.

    I would say £50 p.w. sounds about right in your situation.

    Olias
  • neverdespairgirl
    neverdespairgirl Posts: 16,501 Forumite
    I'd offer £200 to £250. Congratulations on your apprenticeship, hope it goes well.
    ...much enquiry having been made concerning a gentleman, who had quitted a company where Johnson was, and no information being obtained; at last Johnson observed, that 'he did not care to speak ill of any man behind his back, but he believed the gentleman was an attorney'.
  • I think Catblue has it about right, 1/3 of your take home pay. This is what a thread on mortgages came to the conclusion was "about right" as a proportion of your salary to spend on housing.

    It could be argued that you should contribute a bit more as you are being fed as well, but on the flip side you would probably prefer a place of your own.

    Your take home will be about £675pcm so £200 and a bunch of flowers on payday for your mum would sit about right.

    leaves you £250 for spends
    Unless it is damaged or discontinued - ignore any discount of over 25%
  • soccermom
    soccermom Posts: 294 Forumite
    I cant get my 22 year old to pay more than £30 a week without kicking off. He thinks we have a duty of care have threatened to kick him out I just need to follow through.

    I would be happy with £200 in fact at your age and just starting out I would ask for £30 a week to start. Raising with each birthday.

    Well done on the apprenticeship and good luck.
  • Ulfar
    Ulfar Posts: 1,309 Forumite
    soccermom wrote: »
    I cant get my 22 year old to pay more than £30 a week without kicking off. He thinks we have a duty of care have threatened to kick him out I just need to follow through.

    I would be happy with £200 in fact at your age and just starting out I would ask for £30 a week to start. Raising with each birthday.

    Well done on the apprenticeship and good luck.

    I think you have answered your own point, you need to follow through. Your duty of care ended at when he ceased to be a child.

    As for the Op's question 1/3 of income is fair.
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