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16 year old left school, now what?
Raksha
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My son has wanted to join the Army since he was about 8. He left school last month with the aim of signing up. Now, with all the redundancies in the forces, he's not so sure, but we don't know what his options are. He's had it to the back teeth with school, has no idea what sort of 'trade' he'd like, but is quite interested in Agriculture or maybe one of the uniformed services. Being financially independent is very important to him - is there any financial support for 16+ in college these days?
Please forgive me if my comments seem abrupt or my questions have obvious answers, I have a mental health condition which affects my ability to see things as others might.
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What area are you in?
Has he looked at apprenticeships?
I bet you're relieved he's rethought his army plans!0 -
Any sort of uniformed service is going to be a problem right now, i'd look at getting an apprenticeship (appprenticeships.org.uk) and perhaps joining the TA or Royal Marines Reserve like me. Then perhaps in a few years, when hopefully proper recruitment starts again he will have a head start.Per Mare Per Terram0
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We're in Bletchley, Milton Keynes. Yes, part of me is relieved, but although I don't come from a 'Forces family' I felt it was a good choice for him - he's not academic, but he's a great team player and motivator to those around him.Please forgive me if my comments seem abrupt or my questions have obvious answers, I have a mental health condition which affects my ability to see things as others might.0
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My grandaughter who was 16 last November is leaving home for Army Training to be in the Artillery/gunner and we are very very proud of her.make the most of it, we are only here for the weekend.
and we will never, ever return.0 -
could he not get some work with an agency till hes ready to join upReplies to posts are always welcome, If I have made a mistake in the post, I am human, tell me nicely and it will be corrected. If your reply cannot be nice, has an underlying issue, or you believe that you are God, please post in another forum. Thank you0
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I would suggest he looks at apprenticehsips too - the National Apprenticeship Service website shows the apprenticeships that are available, this link will help you with searching for whats around https://apprenticeshipvacancymatchingservice.lsc.gov.uk/navms/Forms/Candidate/Apprenticeships.aspx
There is financial assistance for students at 16, but instead of EMA its in the form of a Bursary that isn't as readily available like EMA was.
There is a brilliant agriculture college up near me, which isn't probably any use to your son but its worth bearing in mind that there are places around - this place takes students from 16 and they can stay there full time so he would get his independence, and they offer financial assistance and bursaries in certain circumstances. http://www.bishopburton.ac.uk/
TooSad
Be brave. Even if you're not, pretend to be. No one can tell the difference.
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I would suggest some sort of vocational training - maybe he could aim to be an electrician/plumber/builder, or any other such trade which is in high demand.0
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My grandaughter who was 16 last November is leaving home for Army Training to be in the Artillery/gunner and we are very very proud of her.
I wish her all the very best.
Thank her for her service from me!:jYou can have everything you wont in lfe, If you only help enough other people to get what they wont.:j0 -
don't assume recruitment has stopped. As its a numbers game they will be looking to the more expensive (senior/longer serving) people - that's my guess. I doubt they will be completely stopping recruitment.
Equally when he's done his basic training things may be different - and also he will have had some time in the army to find out what he's good at.
Keep trying - it may be harder than previous years (more candidates/less jobs) so he will need to work hard and research before interview/applicationI think I saw you in an ice cream parlour
Drinking milk shakes, cold and long
Smiling and waving and looking so fine0 -
Apprenticeships are a good idea. When I worked 8 years ago it was a case of a company having a vacancy and seeing it as a job that could be a trainee post, ie an Apprenticeship linked from the job to going to a course once or twice a week to learn a trade. That could be either an office job or a physical trade.
I have to say either plumbers or electricians do well these days with the need to have a qualified someone to carryout work in the house.
What I would suggest is he looks into apprenticeships and work out what he might like to do.
http://www.apprenticeships.org.uk/
To stand a chance of winning a position as an apprentice, it might be worth him contacting either a company, or a one man band and ask if he could work for free as a runner for them and watch what it is they do. That will give him an idea if it is what he would like to do and also give him a leg up in the interview when a post becomes available as it will show he is serious about it and has been prepared to give up some of his holidays to get more information and work.
I would suggest you do a deal that he does not leave 6th form or a college course until he has secured a job. The important thing is to keep his work ethic going that is always attractive to prospective employers0
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