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New mortgage, not married, OH has debt....advice please

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  • newcook
    newcook Posts: 5,001 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    VfM4meplse wrote: »
    You seem like an honourable person...but tell me, what attracts me to your OH? He sounds like a financial liability, I have never understood women that support their menfolk if they are fit and able.

    he's took an alternative to going bankrupt - nothing else!

    OP has stated in her post that he contributes to the bills so how is she supporting him? would you make the same sweeping statement if it was the woman who was on a deed trust?
  • bellodharma
    bellodharma Posts: 21 Forumite
    same situation like me. :) house is under my name. i already asked the developer about the insurance and they informed me that i can put my fiancees name on the beneficiaries with my brother. we're getting married next year (february) and after that we will fix the papers for my status change and he'll be added as a co-borrower.
    :A work to live or live to work? :A
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