first time having sex

ashaput

hi... I have no idea the best place to post my thread. But since this is a health board I decided to post it here. In advance I'm really sorry for my messy English.
Yesterday I had my first sex with my boyfriend. The problem is that after having sex my vagina (sorry if you think this is too vulgar) keep producing mucus with some blood in it- well at least that is my thougt- because it looks reddish. Is there something wrong with my body? Or is it just a normal thing? I have no courage to talk about this with my mom. So I really need some words here.

VfM4meplse

No, it is quite normal. Please make sure you use a reliable barrier method of contraception.

Now get ready for school.

ashaput

Are you sure? Will it be going for days? I'm sorry for keep asking but am really scared.

VfM4meplse

No, it is caused by local injury so don't worry it should clear shortly. Don't be fearful of the helath implications of your bleed, but do make sure that you are both physically and emotionally equipped for the jourrney you are embarking on. And only ever do it when you want to, sex should be on your terms.

I would recommend visiting a family planning cllinic, they can answer the questions you undoubtedly have, and put your mind at ease. I know talking to your Mum is not an option, do have a think about why that is. Her role is to keep you safe and loved after all.

ashaput

VfM4meplse wrote: »

I know talking to your Mum is not an option, do have a think about why that is. Her role is to keep you safe and loved after all.

Since child I was taugt to not have sex before marriage. But I broke it. Thanks for your replies. At least I know it is not a serious problem.

jenniewb

I would also suggest, if you have problems like this and want advice for something that could need medical advice to please please call NHS direct, they are available on 0845 46 47 48 and are available 24 hours a day. They will be able to advise on things like this straight away.

liney

If you did not use contraception, go to the Chemist for the Morning After Pill TODAY, or see the doctor who will give it to you on perscription.

You can use it for up to 3 days, but the sooner, the more likely to be effective.

VfM4meplse

jenniewb wrote: »

I would also suggest, if you have problems like this and want advice for something that could need medical advice to please please call NHS direct, they are available on 0845 46 47 48 and are available 24 hours a day. They will be able to advise on things like this straight away.

Fine if you have 1/2hr to be triaged and follow an established symptom algorithm. The FP clinic or a sympathetic female pharmacist with a private consultation room would be much better access option.

ashaput

thanks to all of you but it has stopped this morning. I really do thank you. That was my first. May be I'm too scared if there would be something wrong happen to me. I didn't use any contraception but he pulled out his sperm out of my body.

MrsAtobe

Sorry Ashaput, but that is NOT a method of contraception. Please go to see a GP, Family Planning Clinic or a pharmacist to get the morning after pill. They will not judge you.

londonsurrey

You can't manually pull all the sperm out of your vagina. Either he's knowingly falsely reassuring you, or he thinks he knows, but actually needs further education about the facts. Whichever it is, you are not 100% safe now.
You have a very small window of time in which to use the morning after pill. Go to the clinic today.