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Moral dilemma: use friend or high street?

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  • Fire_Fox
    Fire_Fox Posts: 26,026 Forumite
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    Thing is, I may start a food related business in the future and I wouldn't want the reverse (eg we'll go to Tesco because they're cheaper than you).

    I don't really want to traipse around looking at lots of frames. Would rather do it all in one place IYSWIM.

    On that basis you would only ever purchase fair trade fruit and veg, organic cotton clothing, hand dyed and hand stitched household furnishings, all your meat, eggs and dairy from the farm shop, gifts from Etsy, etc. etc.
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  • Pee
    Pee Posts: 3,826 Forumite
    I've had glasses I have loved from an independent. Can't say the same about spec savers. I've only used them once. I got two pairs and the pair I wore least fell apart. I also had an independent optician offering buy one get one free so I had a pair of prescription sunglasses.
  • mildred1978
    mildred1978 Posts: 3,367 Forumite
    Curlywurli wrote: »
    Forget the fact she's a friend. If you had a choice between Specsavers or an independent which one would you use?

    I needed to buy a tv, my friend tried selling me one out of her husband's lock up garage. I didn't want to buy a tv from a lock up (friend or no friend) so I went to Argos.

    To be honest, I've never thought much of Specsavers/Optical Express etc. I'd rather use an independent, not that I have before.
    Science adjusts its views based on what's observed.
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  • mildred1978
    mildred1978 Posts: 3,367 Forumite
    Fire_Fox wrote: »
    On that basis you would only ever purchase fair trade fruit and veg, organic cotton clothing, hand dyed and hand stitched household furnishings, all your meat, eggs and dairy from the farm shop, gifts from Etsy, etc. etc.

    I meant I don't want my group of friends to go elsewhere! But I get your point.
    Science adjusts its views based on what's observed.
    Faith is the denial of observation, so that belief can be preserved.
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  • mildred1978
    mildred1978 Posts: 3,367 Forumite
    Just thought I'd update this thread. I did go to my friend, who during the consultation, with no prompting at all, said that I should ignore the prices on the glasses on display as she would let me have whatever I chose at cost price. So I have a gorgeous new pair of glasses for a really good price! I'm thrilled!

    Thanks to everyone that offered advice.
    Science adjusts its views based on what's observed.
    Faith is the denial of observation, so that belief can be preserved.
    :A Tim Minchin :A
  • MX5huggy
    MX5huggy Posts: 7,169 Forumite
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    That's a shame, she will expect you to supply top class food at Ice Land prices in the future.
  • mildred1978
    mildred1978 Posts: 3,367 Forumite
    MX5huggy wrote: »
    That's a shame, she will expect you to supply top class food at Ice Land prices in the future.

    :rotfl:

    She can't cook, so I think I'll be okay!
    Science adjusts its views based on what's observed.
    Faith is the denial of observation, so that belief can be preserved.
    :A Tim Minchin :A
  • nedmundo
    nedmundo Posts: 1,160 Forumite
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    Just thought I'd update this thread. I did go to my friend, who during the consultation, with no prompting at all, said that I should ignore the prices on the glasses on display as she would let me have whatever I chose at cost price. So I have a gorgeous new pair of glasses for a really good price! I'm thrilled!

    Thanks to everyone that offered advice.

    Nice to see a happy conclusion and that loyalty sometimes gets rewarded:T
    Beware the character seeking personal gain masquerading as a moral crusader.
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