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married for 10 years with kid can a temp split work

hi I have been with my partner for ages but need think if the relationship is going to work we need to do a temp split for a motnh or so.

has any one done this when they have a young child how does it work.

We have been toghter since we were 18 and am thinking a lttle bit of survival on our own may make us appriciate the other person a bit more. My partner says they are going to change but never does it is all just talk so am hoping that a bit of reality for both of us may help it out before the realtionship ends complterlty

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  • whitewing
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    I think anything that can jolt you out of normal routine could help. The trouble with one partner announcing that a temp split is required may lead to a lack of trust for the future even if you get back together. Or you may miss your partner but they decide they much prefer the lack of hassle.

    I know of couples who holiday separately. I think there would have to be ground rules though.
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