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Is this a glitch or not - need help!
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stayingupright
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I just wanted some advice.
On my husband's facebook profile, as viewed on my laptop, he is married to me, and I can view his photo albums - which include photos of me.
I sometimes use my phone to look at facebook, in bed or when out. On the mobile facebook I cannot change settings, or delete statuses, but can view profiles, update my status & upload photos.
I noticed a glitch where I get updates from people who I've friend requested, but haven't accepted.
My problem is this - I've noticed recently that on the mobile site, on my husband's info page I'm not listed as his wife - in fact it doesn't mention that he is married. I also looked at his photo page, and he has no albums. I've checked it at various times, over a week now, but it never changes... yet when I view everyone else's I can see their relationship status (if listed) and photos, it's only his that is lacking.
I'm quite concerned about this, but wondered if there was another explanation before confronting him. I'm imagining that he's set his privacy settings to allow only me & him to see his photos, marital status etc, but for some reason I see what others see on the mobile site. I'm suspicious because he used to write on my wall and now won't, he won't let me tag him in photos, and mde me remove a mutual friend so we have none
On my husband's facebook profile, as viewed on my laptop, he is married to me, and I can view his photo albums - which include photos of me.
I sometimes use my phone to look at facebook, in bed or when out. On the mobile facebook I cannot change settings, or delete statuses, but can view profiles, update my status & upload photos.
I noticed a glitch where I get updates from people who I've friend requested, but haven't accepted.
My problem is this - I've noticed recently that on the mobile site, on my husband's info page I'm not listed as his wife - in fact it doesn't mention that he is married. I also looked at his photo page, and he has no albums. I've checked it at various times, over a week now, but it never changes... yet when I view everyone else's I can see their relationship status (if listed) and photos, it's only his that is lacking.
I'm quite concerned about this, but wondered if there was another explanation before confronting him. I'm imagining that he's set his privacy settings to allow only me & him to see his photos, marital status etc, but for some reason I see what others see on the mobile site. I'm suspicious because he used to write on my wall and now won't, he won't let me tag him in photos, and mde me remove a mutual friend so we have none
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It could be a glitch. It seems like you are seeing what other people see from your phone. So it could be that no-one can see you and your husband's status because he's set privacy seetings to allow only you and him to see his profile etc. Which is fair enough.
I'm afraid I can't help you regarding your husband's behaviour re: mutual friends and tagging photos etc. Not my place0 -
Thanks - I have my answer, I've just asked him & he said that I'm a "stupid paranoid b**ch", but when I said he could easily prove my paranoia by showing me his privacy settings (which he's asked me a few times) he refused saying I'm mad & he shouldn't have to0
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What was his reasoning for having you remove a mutual friend?0
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He said that he doesn't like the guy (it was his friend first) and he removed him, and he kept arguing with me until I deleted him, he didn't have a good reason0
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