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Alarms bells ringing - cash on collection item

I sniped a bicycle for a good price off t'Bay, and will do cash on collection so I can walk away if it's a lemon (used my buying-only account)

Contacted buyer and arranged collection on Friday, but he added "I'll send you my address nearer the time"

Maybe I'm paranoid, but isn't that rather peculiar? Maybe seller will be a dead-beat and bike will mysteriously be 'lost'?

Comments

  • pinkshoes
    pinkshoes Posts: 20,689 Forumite
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    You could request his address from ebay? Or perhaps the bike is valuable and stored somewhere safe?

    I sold a bike ages ago (in Oxford) and had it stored elsewhere, as I had nowhere secure for it, and also didn't want someone knowing the address of where a semi-expensive bike was kept!

    (bikes in Oxford are stolen to order)
    Should've = Should HAVE (not 'of')
    Would've = Would HAVE (not 'of')

    No, I am not perfect, but yes I do judge people on their use of basic English language. If you didn't know the above, then learn it! (If English is your second language, then you are forgiven!)
  • Oliver14
    Oliver14 Posts: 5,878 Forumite
    Agree with Pinkshoes the seller maybe worried about potential theft.
    'The More I know about people the Better I like my Dog'
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  • go_cat
    go_cat Posts: 2,509 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    Some people are a little nervous of giving out their details earlier than necessary .... wait and see if he sends them nearer Friday .... if he doesn't and you cannot contact him you can always go down the NPS route
  • hermum
    hermum Posts: 7,123 Forumite
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    I don't think it's odd, why do you need the address several days before you're going to collect?
    I generally don't give mine out for collection items until a day & time has been arranged.
  • mikey72
    mikey72 Posts: 14,680 Forumite
    edited 7 June 2011 at 1:52PM
    I can't understand why sellers who advertise collection won't tell you where they live, it sort of defeats the purpose really.
    I had one that wouldn't give me their address either.
    I needed the address so I could plan the week and if I was passing organise the pickup, rather than set a time by guessing where they where.
    In the end I told them to keep it, and bought off someone else.
    In this one, if they won't trust you enough to tell you now, it'll be another 3 days lost before you find out if they're for real on Friday.
    So you'll be looking again next week.
    (Or then again, just tell them 9am tomorrow, then when you get the address, email back with the real date and time, if you really need whatever they're selling)
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