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  • donnap83
    donnap83 Posts: 540 Forumite
    What a marvellous example you are setting for your children. Run up the debt, then shirk your responsibility to re-pay it.
    :oGetting married 23rd June 2012!!:o
  • ILW
    ILW Posts: 18,333 Forumite
    Apparently it is the thing to do when you are 18.
  • ViolaLass
    ViolaLass Posts: 5,764 Forumite
    donna-c-86 wrote: »
    cant believe its all sorted with Aktiv Kapital, account has been closed. thanks so much for the helpful advice.

    i didnt say he shouldnt pay it, but i dont know any1 who wouldnt try to sort it out for their OH if they were in the same boat

    For you 'sort it out' seems to mean 'get away with not paying it if possible', whereas for me, 'sorting it out' would mean supporting my partner and getting him the right information and advice but still making sure he paid it back if he owed it.

    Did Aktiv Kapital decide he didn't need to pay it in the end?
  • donna-c-86
    donna-c-86 Posts: 139 Forumite
    of course you would make sure he paid it back even though he didnt have to!
    this is something he done before we got together, he was a real pain in the !!!! in every way until he sorted himself out mid 20s.

    no he doesnt have to pay it back, sorry to disappoint you
    x :heart: x
  • donna-c-86
    donna-c-86 Posts: 139 Forumite
    and by the way donnap i dont tell my young children about my bills and debts so it reallyu isnt going to affect them
    x :heart: x
  • koloko
    koloko Posts: 1,766 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    edited 22 June 2011 at 10:25AM
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  • donna-c-86
    donna-c-86 Posts: 139 Forumite
    i know how to manage my finances, this was all because my OH made a bad decision many years ago. I came on here for helpful advice and im grateful to the people who were kind enough to go out of their way to give me that. end of
    x :heart: x
  • ILW
    ILW Posts: 18,333 Forumite
    Not sure what advice you were looking for, if it was for people to say it is fine to borrow money and not pay it back then you will be disappointed.
  • halifax71
    halifax71 Posts: 213 Forumite
    Oh I do love this site. It must be great to be perfect.

    I will try to follow the messages on how to run my life. Maybe one day I can come back on here and post derogatory messages to people seeking help.
  • donna-c-86
    donna-c-86 Posts: 139 Forumite
    ILW wrote: »
    Not sure what advice you were looking for, if it was for people to say it is fine to borrow money and not pay it back then you will be disappointed.


    actually i did get some sound advice so not at all disappointed :D
    x :heart: x
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