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Advice Needed - Family Loan repayments

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  • catfish50
    catfish50 Posts: 545 Forumite
    robbie75 wrote: »
    He has already paid more than 3/4's of this debt...

    In that case maybe he should stand firm on not paying any more and see what action the FIL takes, if any.
    I still do not think that he should pay anymore money and should tell the F-I-L to go seek the money elsewhere, namely the daughter and be lucky that he has paid all what he has paid.

    Always better (IMO) to communicate these intentions in a reasonable manner, rather than ranting, as if he rants about others being unreasonable he runs the risk that it is he who will come out sounding like the unreasonable one.
  • catfish50
    catfish50 Posts: 545 Forumite
    Apples2 wrote: »
    Definintely not mine lol. :)

    Definitely not. My ex is also a reasonable person. :)
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