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THE FUTURE IS ONE BIG CHALLENGE AFTER ANOTHER for 3Dogs and friends ..... PART 3

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  • 3Dogs
    3Dogs Posts: 14,092 Forumite
    You will have to ignore their opinions of you and how they 'value' you and concentrate on what really matters - what others thing of you and what you think of yourself

    You are a lovely friendly person and we were so pleased to have met you at the weekend - we value you as a friend and you must learn to value yourself differently - think of the positives :j :j

    Sorry, but I've got to pop along to my friend's house to see how she is today, and have a natter and my daily free cuppa ;);) back later
    :( Mr 3Dogs 3-7-12 :( 3Dogs'Mam 31-3-13 :(
  • craftihants
    craftihants Posts: 588 Forumite
    maybe you could spend time on researching prices regarding Mr T's refund the difference, (ie doing price comparisons with ASDA)

    but hte prices keep changing
    that sounds so boring too like data inputting into spreadsheets would probably put me to sleep and depress me i need something fun to cheer me up:j:j
  • craftihants
    craftihants Posts: 588 Forumite
    aww Erika, you mustnt feel like that, although I totally understand the way you feel. It wont be easy but the transition from all work and no 'play' to more of an equal balance can be done, just keep heading over to Kit's and make sure she eats properly and more healthier xx

    ignore me im probable hormonal i dont know why i feel so miserable i cant stop the tears from flowing its so stupid
  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    Howdy all. I was a bit late leaving worky poos. I am going in late tomorrow so I bought work home.

    Crafti it will take time but hang out with J and nice friends. Do happy things. Write down a list of what you want to achieve by the end of the year. I think you should go to a personal shopper in town and ask her to choose you a nice outfit you wouldn't usually consider. It will be so good for your confidence!!!!!!!!!!!!!:j:j:j
    Aiming for a minimal spend 2022
  • hantsindebt
    hantsindebt Posts: 677 Forumite
    i understand that Crafti, i would think something a bit more physical will help, eg, making the cards could be a start?

    How about maybe doing crossstitch or tapistry?

    aww 3dogs you are so good with words, you say things so well. maybe you could mention to your neighbour with regards putting the t bags on the line? hehe
    Eating sensibly to try and lose some weight
  • The_Dragon
    The_Dragon Posts: 9,749 Forumite
    hi how are you
    :j:j:j

    Not too bad, just shattered and sore :o
    Do not meddle in the affairs of Dragons, for thou art crunchy and good with catsup :D
    NSD 15/20, OS WL 21-6 (4) :(C.R.A.P R.O.L.L.Z #44 Twisted Firestarter, VSP #57 - £39.43
    :p Every Penny's a Prisoner :p
  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    oh my gosh dont cry. We all love you. You are amazing. But you will have to learn to put yourself first. It takes time but you will do it.
    Aiming for a minimal spend 2022
  • steviehants
    steviehants Posts: 3,228 Forumite
    Hello Kit, :j
  • hantsindebt
    hantsindebt Posts: 677 Forumite
    ignore me im probable hormonal i dont know why i feel so miserable i cant stop the tears from flowing its so stupid

    Erika, your just expressing your feelings, nowt wrong in that.

    Steve says you can do his ironing
    Eating sensibly to try and lose some weight
  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    Dragon why sore? are you ok?
    Aiming for a minimal spend 2022
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