THE FUTURE IS ONE BIG CHALLENGE AFTER ANOTHER for 3Dogs and friends ..... PART 3

hantsindebt

hi there all, hope everyone has had a good day?

Crafti, do you have any hobbies?, eg sewing, knitting, painting, gardening, all of those can be classed as therapeutic

3Dogs

craftihants wrote: »

hi how are you 3dogs:j:j:j:j

I'm fine Crafti - message from Mr 3Dogs is that he will come down and slap her if she doesn't get herself cheerful again :eek: :eek:

I guess it's all in the mind petal - you have to think of yourself in a different way - as your own person and not as being there just for others. You are right in doing things you want to do, but it will take time to fully adjust your mind set - these changes are not made in a day, or a week, or a month, they come over time

3Dogs

Hiya Andy and Steve :j :j :j :j :j :j

hantsindebt

maybe you could spend time on researching prices regarding Mr T's refund the difference, (ie doing price comparisons with ASDA)

steviehants

3Dogs wrote: »

Hiya Andy and Steve :j :j :j :j :j :j

Hello Susan, :kisses3:


Hows you & my mate? has he finished those doors yet?

hantsindebt

evening 3dogs, sounds like Mr3dogs is keeping busy, say hi to him from me

craftihants

3Dogs wrote: »

I'm fine Crafti - message from Mr 3Dogs is that he will come down and slap her if she doesn't get herself cheerful again :eek: :eek:

I guess it's all in the mind petal - you have to think of yourself in a different way - as your own person and not as being there just for others. You are right in doing things you want to do, but it will take time to fully adjust your mind set - these changes are not made in a day, or a week, or a month, they come over time

thanks that makes sense
i find it so hard to get a work life balance and i know i am a workaholic, i dont know any different thats the way i was brought up i know i have to change but dont know how
i suppose i am now feeling angry at feeling like i am a commodity instead of being valued as an employee/human being:mad::mad::mad:

craftihants

hantsindebt wrote: »

hi there all, hope everyone has had a good day?

Crafti, do you have any hobbies?, eg sewing, knitting, painting, gardening, all of those can be classed as therapeutic

ive done craft-making cards:):)
ive done knitting and sewing:):):)
hate gardening:(:(:(
hopeless at painting:(:(:(

hantsindebt

craftihants wrote: »

thanks that makes sense
i find it so hard to get a work life balance and i know i am a workaholic, i dont know any different thats the way i was brought up i know i have to change but dont know how
i suppose i am now feeling angry at feeling like i am a commodity instead of being valued as an employee/human being:mad::mad::mad:

aww Erika, you mustnt feel like that, although I totally understand the way you feel. It wont be easy but the transition from all work and no 'play' to more of an equal balance can be done, just keep heading over to Kit's and make sure she eats properly and more healthier xx

hantsindebt

ho about start making Christmas cards? I know its early but it will help give you focus, plus maybe save you some money