Wedding Diet Thread....

Hadley1

I agree as well Jo. Stand firm. To be honest I think she is a bit bad to keep asking.

Rups32

sadly these things do stress us women out more. to my hubby nothing was not worth solving. i had issues with my BM's but had to deal with it the way women do. if i listened to hubby i would have lost the friendships but then there were a few i was happy to lose as they were those draining friends.

i think just have a chat with her and leave it as 'if she understands then fine, if she doesnt, then its her own issue'. i had an issue with a friend i know from uni. she never keeps in touch with me but she does with two other girls who i invited. i am in touch with them slightly more but not even that much. so i chose not to invite the third one and then i found out the other two were biaching about it behind my back and one of them did text me and say she was gutted that that girl wasnt invited. i felt bad but why should i invite her because i felt bad? so i just said that we arent in touch anymore so why should i? i didnt care but now the other two are quiet with me.. oh well. their loss.

Rups32

i know Hadley.. i wouldnt ask if i knew that its just me.. one girl even asked me if she could bring her 'friend with benefits' and i was shocked but i said no, but luckily for me, i ended up not inviting her as she wasnt really a positive friend. lol. i made a few enemies but am happier! haha

Em88

Yeah I will call her later to discuss. Need to get it out there and will see what she says.

Getting hungry now but its ages till lunch yet

Hadley1

Yeah Emm think you need to talk it through. Surely she should just take no for an answer. hope it goes ok hun.

Do you have a set time for your lunch then?

I am thinking of going out to get something in a minute. Obviously something mega healthy after my terrible weekend.

Em88

Thanks, fingers crossed. Will try and call her later, not got enough charge to do it now and she will be at work too.

Well I am meant to take my lunch between 1 and 2 but it doesn't really matter. The earlier I go though the longer it is between lunch and dinner haha.

Must exercise this evening; maybe it will help with the stress.

Olokia

Hadley, these are my shoes.
http://www.rainbowclub.co.uk/collection.htm?brand=Rainbow%20Club&productID=194&Accessories=

I'm was quite restricted on what shoes I could have because I have very wide feet and shoe manufacturers think people with wide feet like ugly shoes and no high heels. So I think I was lucky to find this one.

johannalf88

Well.... Those of us with narrow feet must be rich Italians.... As the only shoes that are made narrow enough for me are designer or made in Italy!!!

Hadley1

Lovely shoes Olokia. I have the same problem as you - wide feet. OH keeps telling me that mine are square pretty much as wide as they are long - cheeky so and so. :rotfl:

johannalf88

Why is it that nobody seems to have 'normal' feet?!

I popped across the road to the pool while at lunch to try and make sense of their swimming timetable... I ha to ask the woman twice before she figured out what I was asking. I just want to know when I can go swimming during lunch - which I thought was public swimming- apparently its also called swim fit- which is different because it's adults swimming in lanes?!?? Oh, yeah, I usually swim in circles?!?! !!!!!!? :rotfl: sorry, got a bit annoye with her!