Wedding Diet Thread....

Rups32

it is horrible but think of the next one you find. you were not meant to have this one and that means something better is out there for you!

Olokia

johannalf88 wrote: »

I'm sorry Olokia. its awful when you know you can do the job isn't it? I had that for the last one I applied for. It was a public sector position, n I didn't tick all the boxes, say the key words etc. now I have had enough and want out!

I said all the key words as my OH works there and he gave me a list of things that they would be checking against and I revised solidly for a week to make sure I would get this job as it is the best company in the area.

johannalf88

I'm sorry. my point was you can do the job, but interviewers can just be really picky. It's unfair, as it should just be about who can do the job the best/ has the most potential etc. But unfortunately if someone just decides they don't like you they will use any excuse.

Make sure you ask for feedback, especially if you are so sure you did everything right. They should give it to you, and it will either be useful for your own development, or something to give a lawyer!!

Olokia

Thanks everyone.

Sorry I made the thread feel

Rups32

no we are here to share the happiness, diet news, sadness. everything! it surely helps chatting about. dont feel down olokia, go and have some yummy comfort food tonight and hugs from OH.xx

Rups32

ladies, have a lovely evening.. olokia. try and have a nice evening. *hug*

Em88

Oh Olokia *hugs* it's so hard when you think you are going to get it and then they go another way. I would echo what Jo said re getting feedback, it can really help.

I stayed the same this week and am happy with that. My friend was up at the weekend and my mum which meant dinner out both nights plus take away last night and several cupcakes over the week so all in all happy to stay the same.

slowlyfading

Olokia - sorry to hear about the job. I'm finding it difficult to find one too, it's not a good time at the moment.

Food today:
b - HM energy bar
l - dippy egg with two slices of toast
s - chocolate mint nougat bar (81 cals)
t - Pasta with sausages in a HM tomato and spinach sauce

Not too bad today

stir_crazy

Olokia, its so gutting when you know it the perfect job! Hopefully you'll find another one soon if you dont like where you are now.

Weighed myself and I stayed the same as last week. Lovely salad again for me today.

Rups32

morning ladies. hope you are all well. :0) olokia i hope you had a nice stress-free evening and are feeling better today. *hug*

Hubby had his iv yest and all evening and this morning, he was in a different frame of mind. its because he wants it so badly

i also weighed myself and i shocked myself as somehow i have lost weight??? idont get it???am i not supposed to be gaining? i couldnt eat much last night but still had some pasta with pesto and sausages. i wanted seconds and then i felt sick as had a banging headache and was sneezing. i am feeling sorry for myself today. came in as didnt want to miss my xmas lunch with work and my secret santa. hehe :T